[emopunk7]

So it looks like I'm going alone! Friends cancelled and one just didn't say anything so whatever... im enjoying it. Nothing else to do but live this moment to its best.

[vanheart]

Cool, go solo.

This is what people do whether with pals or not.
Have some fun for a change. You need it.
You may be surprised at the results. How great you feel.

Just keep doing those things and not because of this breakup.

Just because its fun. Blow off some steam. Meet some new friends.

And you are exactly right. Live in & for those moments. Not in the past.

If you can master that. You're golden.

[emopunk7]

Well its 630 am and I am drunk and I lost my credit card! I met a few beautiful girls and got a girls number. I had a good time but I got too drunk I was lost for like 2 hours! I was sad but there were good times!

[amicon]

Strong black coffee and a fryup and some sleep might cure your hangover!
But first of all,sort out your creditcard. :-)

[vanheart]

Glad you had fun.

See?

[Alty]

well its 630 am and I am drunk and I lost my credit card! I met a few beautiful girls and got a girls number. I had a good time but I got too drunk I was lost for like 2 hours! I was sad but there were good times!

The mom in me has to ask. How did you get lost? Tell me you didn't drive while you were drunk! :mad:

[vanheart]

Now Im laughing.
Yes, don't drink & drive. Or talk or text. Or put anyone at harm.

This is a public service announcement with benefits.

Yeah, how did you get lost?

Im not talking about your night, either...

[Alty]

Please tell me that you don't think that drinking and driving is funny.

I don't want to go off topic, but having personally lost loved ones to drinking and driving and meeting a young 18 year old girl that was destined for the Olympics as a skier, turned into a vegetable because of a drunk driver, I don't find it a laughing matter at all.

[vanheart]

Nope, not at all. Not me. Sorry if I offended. Im on your side.

We don't even know if he has a license or drives. Now do, we?

Off topic. Your right.

[Alty]

You didn't offend, I thought that you were laughing and joking about drunk driving, which is not something I take lightly.

The only reason I asked was because of this;

I got too drunk I was lost for like 2 hours

[vanheart]

I know. We don't have those issues. Glad you reminded him. That's not why I was laughing, was more the about the endearment of your post. That's why emails misconstrue. We all laugh at things. And cry.

I was just happy that emo finally blew off some steam. Phew!

All he lost was his credit card, and hopefully some release from his heartbreak.

[Alty]

I'm happy about that too. I hope he had fun, I hope he finds his credit card because it's a pain in the a$$ to have to cancel it and get a new one, and I hope that he does it again, in a cab, or with a designated driver. ;)

I think it's about time he just went out and let loose. He also got a phone number, so that's good. I just hope he doesn't call her to tell her all about his ex. Emo, don't do that, okay? :)

[vanheart]

Yup do it again. And other cool things. Being safe.

And be aware. Don't forget what you've learned, BTW. 82 pages, yo. c'mon.

Yeah, like alty says, don't rush. Regroup & have fun. Don't look for a replacement.

Don't cry on some new girls shoulder. Just live in the moments, the good ones..

[Alty]

There's nothing that will get a girl to block your number faster then a call talking about your ex and all the good and bad times you had together. ;)

[vanheart]

Can I laugh now?.

[Alty]

Can I laugh now?...

LMAO! You're asking my permission? Did I scare you that much? :p

You can laugh whenever you want, just be prepared for me to kick you in the butt once in a while, just for fun. ;)

[vanheart]

Thanks for the permission.

Just screwing w/you. I,I, I Immmean, you scared me...

That's my way, Im in advertising. Serious, and childish. Always thinking.

And with a big heart.

Now back to emo...

[emopunk7]

So... I never and I mean Never drink and drive. I take it very serious and I'm about to cry just thinking about how stupid and careless that is and the innocent people. No I drove to the ferry and parked and took a boat to the city then train and walked and met with random people and so the night went. On my return I got on a train which took a while to find and the train mustve gone back and forth for about an hour as I was completely dizzy. Finally, I managed to get out and take the boat back home where I then phoned my brother to pick me up. Just a few hours ago after work I drove my car back home. All is well and as for my credit card/debit card, it was locked and I will have the replacement on Tuesday.
I did okay today and trying to bring the memories far away. I don't talk to new girs about an ex. I don't even talk to friends about it. I feel happy interacting with people and feel a lot of energy to do new things such as last night. I am in a good place as far as motivation and energy and happiness. I just feel down when thinking about how it's over but in time I should be fine. I have many questions such as specific situations and wonder how other men would react to their girlfriend acting a certain way and wonder if I dealt with them as should. Again, that may be a phase I am in. I am trying to gain 9 pounds and continue gaining muscle at the same time and will be at the gym tomorrow after work. Please, stop commenting on how many pages I've used. I don't care. This is my thread. I like the people here and this is where I let loose on my down days and obviously it is helping tremendously. I shouldn't feel afraid of posting because it's getting too long. Be it 500 pages, I will continue updating and making progress. I am determined to do better and this helps the NC. So what if people only need 10 pages or less. Not me and I don't care for comparison. Some people get their degrees by 22. I am 25 and in no rush. Congrats to those but my pace is different. So long as I get there, I am moving forward. Emopunk7

[amicon]

Good you sound happy.
You must have had a birthday since you started your thread-belated Many Happy Returns!

[emopunk7]

My birthday is next month. Two days after valentine's day.