[ScottGem]

oh my god. the girls' story upset me because premarital sex is wrong. the fact that she didnt use protection bugs me even more. whatever, you think its okay and that she should move in with her boyfriends parents, and i think that what she did was wrong. shall we proceed to forgetting each other? thank you and nice meeting you. i'm sorry to hear about your husband. may he rest in peace.

Did you actually read the responses to this thread? Have you read similar threads? If you believe that "premarital sex is wrong" you are swimming upstream. Teenage sex is wrong! But the fact is that much of the world doesn't agree that what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their homes is anyone else's business. I have stated several times that I don't believe that sex is a recreation and that no one should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are prepared to have a child. And hearing about 14 year olds getting pregnant disturbs me too. It disturbs most of the people here. But we don't come down on them with a rant such as you let loose.

[Alty]

oh my god. the girls' story upset me because premarital sex is wrong. the fact that she didnt use protection bugs me even more. whatever, you think its okay and that she should move in with her boyfriends parents, and i think that what she did was wrong. shall we proceed to forgetting each other? thank you and nice meeting you. i'm sorry to hear about your husband. may he rest in peace.

Did you read all the posts in this thread? Seems like you didn't, you just came here, ranted, raved, and then felt entitled to talk down to others. That's what I see in your posts.

The fact is, this girl is pregnant, and she's 14. Saying that you don't agree with premarital sex, or the fact that she's 14, or any of the other sermons, doesn't change the facts. Most of us are just as upset about the fact that a 14 year old child is having a child. I don't think one single person, with any sense, has said that her pregnancy is a good thing, or the right thing for a child her age, or any child for that matter.

I would highly suggest that you read before you post, and also realize that just because you're Christian, and have your beliefs, doesn't mean that everyone else does. This is a worldwide site, with many different people from all over the world. Not everyone believes in God, or Christianity. So keep that in mind. You have the right to your beliefs, as does everyone else on this site, but no one has the right to push their beliefs on others.

[joypulv]

youscous, your naïveté is showing. When you are older and wiser you won't preach and moralize at the already done deed. The pregnant teen, the drunk on the street, the classmate in a meth frenzy, the speeding driver lying broken by his wrecked car, the compulsive gambler losing his family's house and savings. You say you are a Christian? There but for the grace of God go I, just for starters. For middles, love thy neighbor as thyself. For enders - one of those really could be you someday, despite what you think now.

[JudyKayTee]

I understand that and with both of us working im sure we coild do it along with his familys help, i have people to help and i already have a lot of diapers and clothes and all of that just need to get formula. Thats it, i already hve most of it different sizes of diapers up to threes.

I realize this is going to happen and so this is just a discussion.

You are prepared, right? How many diapers are a "lot" and how many do you have in different sizes? This alone could be a big shock to you - and your bank account.

[ScottGem]

Hey Judy, Mason hasn't been back for a while.

[JudyKayTee]

Hey Judy, Mason hasn't been back for a while.

Whoops - I didn't realize how old the thread is.

Time for a big red "closed" sign?

(I'm suffering from Post Traumatic AMHD Syndrome.)