[vanheart]

Yup, a book by its cover, both of them...

[Kitkat22]

He probably resembles Goober Pyle. Just an opinion

[vanheart]

The one who couldn't communicate, but sang like a bird.

[Enigma1999]

Out of 63 answers (posts) only 2 of them are from the OP. If he does not return, then I think we should all abort.

... just saying

[vanheart]

I agree. Was thinking the same thing, thanks.

If wants to dig deeper into why, show something other than selfishness, be a man. Then Im here.

If he wants to blow it off for another bachelor party, then, not.

Curiosity killed the cat, yo. Me included.

Im on hiatus.

[kp2171]

I am so done with this thread.

The OP'er is not a saint and has some issues of grandeur... but really... some people are not willing to own the fact that they modify their behavior to attract the opposite sex.

I choose the clothes I wear for two reasons... I like it/them/whatever for myself and I think it looks good on me, which seems to have some weight concerning the opposite sex. Both angles are considered, and when I'm looking to flirt or find a mate, ill dress in a manner that I think is most attractive to the women I'm interested in. call me a pig for that. Don't care.

*SIGH* I give up. Just not a fight I wish to have anymore.

Why is it so freakin hard to admit that the opinion of the opposite sex (or whomever you are interested in) plays into how you dress, smell, and look?

Why is it shameful to admit we want to be attractive to our potential mates?

I'm am so done. Outtie for good.

[Kitkat22]

i am so done with this thread.

the OP'er is not a saint and has some issues of grandeur... but really... some people are not willing to own the fact that they modify their behavior to attract the opposite sex.

i choose the clothes i wear for two reasons... i like it/them/whatever for myself and i think it looks good on me, which seems to have some weight concerning the opposite sex. both angles are considered, and when im looking to flirt or find a mate, ill dress in a manner that i think is most attractive to the women im interested in. call me a pig for that. dont care.

*SIGH* i give up. just not a fight i wish to have anymore.

why is it so freakin hard to admit that the opinion of the opposite sex (or whomever you are interested in) plays into how you dress, smell, and look?

why is it shameful to admit we want to be attractive to our potential mates?

im am so done. outtie for good.

What is shameful... is there are women who read things like this and think
They don't stand a chance with a guy if they don't have big boobs, long legs, perfect features, perfect figures. It's a chauvinist attitude to even say this about the woman he supposedly loves.

My husband is very handsome and I'm no dog... I have found that the cutie playboys who think they hung the moon are the worst guys in the world. I never fell for a line of crap except once the first time I was married to a "Hunk". He was an A$$H---.

Yes we all dress to be attractive and we want to smell good and be pleasing to look at. AS I stated this guy suddenly decides she's not attractive enough! WAKE UP !
He's a p---. No who wants to go out with a man or woman who stinks! Not me. I buy perfume my husband likes sure, he does the same with mens colonge. I wear my hair the I want to wear it! I dress the way I want to dress and I wear makeup.
FOR ME! NOT for anyone else. I love my husband and I'm proud of the way he looks and dresses , he's proud of me also. Never once, not once has he told me not to wear this or that or makeup.


No more discussing.I think this guy thinks he's the catch of the year. NOT!
The op is not the kind of guy I would ever want any female I know to get involved with.:rolleyes:

[LonelyDoc]

She deserves better this isn't right.

My girlfriend who I am giong through problems with has cellulite that she complains about. Guess what, none of that bothers me one little bit.