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Homegirl 50 · Jul 21, 2010, 04:02 PM

I don't remember now, are you two divorced or were you never married?
If you are not divorced now may be a good time to file and seek joint custody with your kids.

I think she is just pissed and trying to control you.
She will come around. Don't let her control what you feel about yourself.

kutocer · Jul 21, 2010, 04:04 PM

Never married.

That's something I didn't want to have to do. I keep thinking she is pissed and she is just angry but it just keeps brining me down.

I've told her she isn't going to get a rise out of me as I'm not that person anymore but she is really pushing me.

88sunflower · Jul 21, 2010, 04:53 PM

Don't let her get a rise out of you. Your better then that now. Just stay focused on what's most important and that's the girls. Its unfortunate I think she will now use the girls against you and tell them some untruths. But keep your head up the best you can right now and let the storm ride itself out. I agree with Homegirl she seems pi$$ed off and she is lashing out. I am sure she didn't expect you to move on and live life like you have done. She is trying to keep you under her control because she has lost it with you. I am sure she expected the break to go different then it did. Which isn't sitting well with her.

kutocer · Aug 6, 2010, 11:17 AM

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Hey all its been a few weeks, some good some bad, Things have calmed down a lot, Me and her are getting along and talking and no more fights.

My Mum has the girls for the next week and she is going to be all alone next week so I asked her if I could pop over one evening and we can watch a movie together. She said we will talk about it early next week but she didn't say no. I also said to her I would need to see my friends more and have a social life with them as I didn't before and she agreed with that.

I asked about how we can move forward and if that she is willing to perhaps given time try again.

She said right away not how things use to be and I stopped her in her tracks and said no way, If she was to say yes we would give it another try I would say I would still stay somewhere else till the time was ready for me to move back. I told her even if it was to take a year to deal with then I'm prepared to deal with that and take each day at a time.

She said that its only been a few weeks since the break really started after all the fighting and I agreed with her but the thing I took from that was her saying break and not break up, perhaps I'm reading too much in to it but she did say break again afterwards.

She said we will talk next week about it.