[heartbrokeninsa]

Really? I value everyone's advice so I'm kind of surprised in a sense because I would think that a way to get OVER a relationship is to try to forget about her and that maybe would work if I start dating other people right away. I don't know... if I don't date, then what? I'm left alone to do what? PITY myself? I don't want that... I just want to take some POSITIVE steps...
Then, again, if my GF were to text me and say that all is cool and for me to go over... I don't know what the hell to do. Remember, I do love her... >:

[Justwantfair]

You are supposed to do now what HEALTHY single people do, whatever THEY want cause it is now all about you and you don't have to report, answer, impress, worry about anyone besides yourself right now. Go out have a good time.

Having sex is fun for a minute buts it's not gratifying just to have sex with anyone or with someone just to do the emotional roller coaster ride. You have some freedom now. Learn about what you like to do, make new friends, join a dart league, bowling league, sand volleyball. Find things that YOU enjoy.

[kp2171]

Personally, the things that helped me honestly get over another were usually anger and no contact.

Jumping into other relationships too soon usually was a mistake, or at least complicated by the wounds not yet healed.

Yes... its nice to be distracted. Doesn't mean you cannot go out on a date... just be realistic about it... revenge dating usually makes a bigger mess... and sleeping around just to do it... I'm not going to judge... you sleep in your bedroom... but you know the risks...

[heartbrokeninsa]

OK... thanks for the advice... ill keep u posted!