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jeremy4719 · Jun 24, 2007, 05:35 PM

Louisville is fun to come to in April for the kick off the Ketucky Derby festival... It's called Thunder Over Louisville... Look it up on the internet if you want... We've got the 2nd largest fireworks show in the world... It lasts about 30 min and averages 700,000 to 1 million people each year... The Derby itself (I'm sure you've seen) is a big horse race here where people bet their arses off and try and win some money... Derby is the first Saturday in May every year...

jeremy4719 · Jun 24, 2007, 05:36 PM

Yeah... I'm nervous... the 11 is an estimate... should be around 11, might be a bit later...

Shaunta · Jun 24, 2007, 05:38 PM

Honestly... nope Never Heard Of It.. this Is The First Time... sounds Like Fun... But I Don't Think I Would Have Anyone To Go With... this Is So Stressful.. I Don't Know What To Do... I Want To Call Him But Then I Don't Because Iu Called Him Around 4 And He Said He Would Call Me Back And Its Now 8:37

Shaunta · Jun 24, 2007, 05:42 PM

Well Its Too Late I Just Called Him And He Didn't Answer His Phone So I Just Left A Message... I Don't Understand Why Is It So Hard To Pick Up The Phone

Shaunta · Jun 24, 2007, 05:46 PM

Well It Was Nice Talking To You So Now Im Going To Go In My Room And Just Sit There And Be Miserable...

jeremy4719 · Jun 24, 2007, 05:49 PM

YouTube - Thunder over Louisville Finale 4-07

Click on that... A taste of thunder for you :)

jeremy4719 · Jun 24, 2007, 05:51 PM

Good talking to you too... I'll catch you around...

stonewilder · Jun 24, 2007, 06:01 PM

Jeremy it sounds like she has a lot of issues she needs to work out before she gets married to anyone. You know as a young man sex is important to you and it is something most men complain they don't get enough of in their marriage. I was married to my husband 8 years and we had sex at least 3 times a week till the end. If she only wants sex twice a month after only a year and a half and you're not even married yet, can you imagine how little she's going to want it after you're married? I understand that you love her but think about the future. Are you really sure you want to marry her?

Shaunta · Jun 24, 2007, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by jeremy4719

YouTube - Thunder over Louisville Finale 4-07

Click on that... A taste of thunder for ya :)

That was really nice... i wish the fireworks were like that here in rochester... lol... it was nice talking to you also... hope all works out for you... i wish you the best of luck... and congrats on your engagement... :d

jeremy4719 · Jun 24, 2007, 10:24 PM

Shaunta & Chameleon here is the update:

We talked for 1hr and 43min... My ear hurts... I'm going to make this as brief as possible... We both covered about everything we could think of that was wrong and what was right with us... We discussed what needed to be worked on and removed... We talked about emotion, respect, sex, love, attitude, and so on... We talked about breaking up, taking breaks, getting married, and so on... So you are wondering, what the hell happened? Well... We both realized how much we love each other even though we aren't happy with our relationship as it is now, but more how it was and how it WILL be again.. We have a lot of stuff to work on and it won't be a super easy thing, but we both believe that we CAN and WILL be 100% happy again... She agreed to accept the engagement ring back and we are still together and are going to try a fresh start of sorts... Please keep us in your thoughts and/or prayers...

Shaunta... Love really does conquer all after all...

Thank you all for the chat and if you ever need anything at all or just want to bs with someone, please message me on here...

Sincerely,
Jeremy

Chameleon · Jun 25, 2007, 04:44 AM

Good to hear sweetie!:D

Shaunta · Jun 25, 2007, 06:03 AM

Jeremy...

Well I Am So Happy For You... everything Will Work Out For The Best... just Be Positive... I Know At Times It May Be Hard But Never Give Up... I Wish You The Best... congrats

kamilah · Feb 2, 2009, 01:56 PM

Wow, I know this is really old but I just had a similar scenario with my fiance- but with a few less complications. He basically stopped being there for me. Especially when I really needed him most and forced me to give him the ring back. I loved him so very much. After I got through that rough patch (on my own) I contacted him and wanted to reconcile. He doesn't care to. Now that I look back on it, he had stopped telling me he loved me the same month that he proposed and went so far as to say that he felt "neutral" about our relationship. HA! And to think he would get so offended when I would say he didn't love me. Men like you, who are really MEN and understand what it means to live up to your word and a commitment, who see the value in a woman and dedicate yourself to her make me know for sure that my guy never loved me the way that I loved him. Seeing how cold he was to me after we broke up shed light on his true character. And if it weren't so clear, when I simply asked for his forgiveness for not doing all that I needed in the relationship and he wouldn't even grant me that. Heck, he still doesn't even think he did anything to contribute to our demise. When we met, he was a really good man but he knew I brought something out of him that made him want to be better, and he made me want to be better too. That's not something you find everyday- nor do you run away from it when you find it. Anyway, I say this to commend you for being able to really love. I hope that your lady comes to her senses and realizes how few real men there are out there. All the best!

Maybe I'll see you at Thunder this year... my guy was in Lville and we were supposed to go. But I'm still going anyway. Without him.