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damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 01:45 PM

JR how do you know what your ex has planned for the weekend?

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 01:50 PM

Thanks jrsg. Your right about doing things that will distract me from my ex.

I hope you will get this weekend okay too. That would be hard to deal with. How did you find out about it?

Damage your right. How is your day going now? Better than it was earlier I hope.

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 01:58 PM

Yea its better... :)

How are you feeling?

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 01:59 PM

Good. Seems as though you and I have flip flopped for the day. :)

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 02:03 PM

Lol... apparently :D

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 02:05 PM

Are you doing anything tonight or staying home. I may go and visit friends in a bit. It will be hard as the last time I saw them my ex was with me. They all liked and will be asking questions. Yuck!

jrsg · Jun 13, 2008, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by f104

Thanks jrsg. Your right about doing things that will distract me from my ex.

I hope you will get this weekend okay too. That would be hard to deal with. How did you find out about it?

Well, a bit of background info here first. I couldn't really play the NC card with my last relationship. I am in high school, and my girlfriend was in 3 of my 4 classes (how we met). We sit next to each other in all 3 classes, and partnered up on projects together in all classes. So, after we broke up, it was awkward to say the least. But, we kind of had to make a friendship work, as we are around each other for 5 hours a day, 5 days a week.

We have actually done a good job of building a friendship, and we get along well now. I still like her, but she doesn't know it. I figure summer break is coming, and if I need to, NC can happen then. As for seeing her everyday, NC is a little hard to initiate, without outright ignoring her, so we still talk.

Anyways, the way I figured out about the beach thing with a random guy was that she told me. I'm glad she can still talk to me about anything though. And another thing, the "random guy" is the guy she dated before me...

It'll be tough, but I am distracting myself... seeing the grandparents! Thanks for the well wishing.

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 02:18 PM

I have to work... I have a part time job as a bartender, so I get out of my first job then go to the 2nd.. Im pretty busy :D... & about you: go and enjoy being with your friends.. If they ask about her tell them we broke up and I'd rather not talk about her... but if you feel like talking then talk.. they're friends.. but try to have fun... Life is too short to be anything but happy :)...

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 02:21 PM

Its not nice that she can talk to you about anything... because your feeling like crap knowing she'll be going out with some other guy.. You should seriously consider NC over the summer.. What grade are you in?. Are you graduating?

damaged · Jun 13, 2008, 02:23 PM

Well guys I'm on my way out.. I hope you have a wonderful Friday night.. Have lots of fun.. & don't worry about the people who don't worry about you!.

I'll talk to you guys tomorrow... HAVE FUN!! <3 u all

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 02:31 PM

Have a good one.

spion_kop · Jun 13, 2008, 03:17 PM

I don't know what day it is, I don't keep track of NC anymore. You know what I realized, you can have soooo much fun and enjoy yourself when you are busy and seeing friends etc. But the moment I'm alone thoughts of my ex start to pop up. It annoys me a lot and I'm trying to find ways to keep myself busy while being along

f104 · Jun 13, 2008, 03:34 PM

Originally Posted by hjpan

Day 9 of NC --> No Contact..

the urge is slowly dying

That is good to hear. Well done.

gg23 · Jun 13, 2008, 05:37 PM

Hey guys guess what? One thing I am realizing that being single has it good thing after all!! since my break up, I decided to do things just spontaneously... about two weeks ago I took 5 days off and went on a road trip with some friends to NYC... it was such a blast!! and in 19 days I am also going skydiving, then scuba diving... ins't that interesting... hehe? And o get to play soccer and work out everyday and work so I am busy busy busy..! I go boxing, and just hang out with friends and play tons of video games... and now that the Euro 2008 is on, I get to watch all the games... and it helps that my ex is like 3 hours away... so I won't get to see her... the only thing that suck is the memories I have with her in this town.. but in time that will all go away!!

jrsg · Jun 13, 2008, 05:43 PM

Originally Posted by gg23

hey guys guess what? one thing i am realizing that being single has it good thing after all!!!since my break up, i decided to do things just spontaneously...about two weeks ago i took 5 days off and went on a road trip with some friends to NYC....it was such a blast!!!and in 19 days i am also going skydiving, then scuba diving...ins't that interesting....hehe?? and o get to play soccer and work out everyday and work so i am busy busy busy....!!! i go boxing, and just hang out with friends and play tons of video games...and now that the Euro 2008 is on, i get to watch all the games....and it helps that my ex is like 3 hours away...so i won't get to see her...the only thing that suck is the memories i have with her in this town..but in time that will all go away!!!

Its great to see that you're doing well, gg23! I hope you have fun skydiving, and scuba diving, and whatever other '_______diving' you are doing! Lol.

dollarman · Jun 14, 2008, 12:26 AM

Grrrr... it's late and I'm up. Anybody else there? Lol

classicrocker · Jun 14, 2008, 12:40 AM

Yea dollarman, I'm up lol. How you doing today/tonight

classicrocker · Jun 14, 2008, 02:00 AM

So basically found out that my ex hooked up with another guy at another party... wow she's changing... sickening

DazT · Jun 14, 2008, 05:55 AM

Had the most random text message last night.. my ex texted me at 2.30 AM just as I was getting to bed after a bit of a mad night at the local pub with her new number again! We texted for a while, just catching up on things and she left the conversation by telling me to contact her soon and not to be a stranger..

We were both very nice to each other (we split up together, none of us got dumped), but this was the 3rd time she contacted me with her new number after she told me she was getting a new number so we couldn't talk!

DazT · Jun 14, 2008, 05:56 AM

Originally Posted by classicrocker

so basically found out that my ex hooked up with another guy at another party...wow shes changing....sickening

I wouldn't worry about it, our ex's seem to go through that stage of hooking up with every other person after they turn single. That's just the way it goes.. just concentrate on yourself, not on someone that dumped you.