[xoxaprilwine]

heres a quick question for the ladies...if theres big and small what bout having small but fat or is long and thin better?

I am probably the worst person alive :). I have walked away from two guys as soon as they pulled their pants down (this is when I decided I was going to hold on to my virginity until I was "ready" and found the "right" guy and was "comfortable") and I know that is horrible and please don't give me a hard time-I know what I did 8 years ago was bad. Anyway... I have seen small and small is not good for me... I won't even waste my time... average is great actually "perfect" and large well... I would have to say is "eye candy" but intimidating. For large men, if the guy knows what he is doing and is flexible to the woman's preference then its OK but it is painful to the cervix if he gets carried away. Again it is more appealing to the eyes to have a bigger package but not always the best choice for some women... just as men would compare breasts. I would say thickness does matter... depending on the woman and the fit, performance and it all depends on if he can meet his partners sexual mental and physical needs.

[Bonita--]

I know this thread is old but I want to say my opinion. I think that size does matter. It doesn't have to be 12 inches but I prefer it's 5 or more. It also really matters that the guy knows how and wants to make it good for you, but size is a factor. I don't know if other girls are the same but for me when I have sex I need him to get so deep inside me for me to enjoy it, and a guy who is 4 inches won't be able to do that for me. That's just me though.

[smoothy]

Sometimes it can be too big. Don't you think?

Possible... but fairly rare. That sort of guy just isn't common.

[Choux]

Size does matter... a thick penis feels excellent. A regular penis of 6" is the size I liked. Not longer or shorter. Just my preference years ago. :D

[MissBWleh]

Size really doesn't matter, all that matter is that he know what's he's doing and you know what you are doing, so that the both of you can get ultimate satisfaction each time. And there are many different postitions that you can experiment with, especially if he is not that well endowed.