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Imissmygirl · Mar 16, 2012, 07:11 AM

I don't understand:, ((I just want to go home

Wondergirl · Mar 16, 2012, 07:13 AM

You are going to have to do some fact finding and fact checking.

1. Does your mom have sole custody?
2. Why are you at your dad's now--what's the deal with visitation and custody living with him?

Get answers to those two questions.

smoothy · Mar 16, 2012, 07:22 AM

You know... you are going to have to get used to doing things you don't want to do... because you are going to have to the rest of your life. If you think adults only have to do what they want to do, when they want to do it... you are in for a surprise.

If you think being a parent is easy at the best of times... much less when a teenage child is being difficult... your really have a huge surprise coming. And odds are you WILL be a parent one day in that exact situation.

I didn't like High school... but I went every day... literally, I had perfect attendance. I studied.. and I got good grades... not because I enjoyed it... because I needed to do it.

Odds are in 4 or more years... you won't see these same girls your life appperantly revolves around any more because they will have their own lives... then you will see how superficial this all is right now.

In fact it will be much sooner than that... like about the time they get boyfriends...

JudyKayTee · Mar 16, 2012, 08:01 AM

Originally Posted by Imissmygirl

I dont understand because its technically permission...the lady at the police station said leaving home without permission is running away snd thats pretty much permission right???

Sorry, it's not permission. If you leave he could have you stopped by the Police. It's more a frustrated parent saying something not terribly smart. You are confusing "running away" in the legal sense and "running away" in the sense of actually running someplace. Leaving your residence (either temporary or permanent) when you are underage is running away. You can walk, crawl, skip - it's running away.

Without knowing the custody arrangement and why you are with your father until the end of the year it is impossible to give you any more advice.

You have no idea why you are living with your father for the next few months?

If it is as miserable at your father's house as you say it is you can always go to the Police, tell them you are being emotionally (and maybe physically) abused and ask them for their help. Keep in mind that this will make your father REALLY angry - but if you are being abused, then that doesn't matter. You can also be taken to a juvenile home for a period OR until you are legal age.