[slapshot_oi]

You're smothering her for a reason, and you need to figure out why that is. The best way for this to happen is to give yourself space from her so you can reflect.

You've also put yourself in a situation where she's more likely to take advantage of you. Keep your eyes peeled for selfish intentions.

[Fisherman1967]

Where did you find that quotation? Did you let all your girfriends get away that quick, or your wife? I just hear impatience and negativity from you.

[J_9]

Hello, I am 43 and my girlfriend is 46.

My girfriend 46 told my she needs space and that I 46

:confused:

[BMI]

Fisherman,

I understand how difficult a situation this can be; However, lashing out at those trying to help you and give you perspective is wrong. Nobody gets paid to offer their help here, they do it because they are good, kind-hearted people.

Anyway, all the talk about whether it is good or not relationship wise and the whole background only for you to submissively go back with her without addressing the problem. Also, to be honest, I think you are too afraid to be alone to be able to listen and appreciate what those on here are telling you. You whole attitude, being afraid to bring up the subject, not wanting to upset her, leaving things alone because it is better than arguing and making her upset. All signs of, in many ways, a coward. You are willing to sacrifice your well-being and chances at a true love in order to hold on to this so you are not alone. That is what is seems to be going on my friend.

Finally, the whole attack on our good member is a classic defence for those who refuse to see the other side of the coin. This 'fighting for love' sap. I've used it too when people told me it was going nowhere. Trust! People on here are wayyyy to smart and experienced to be taken with that excuse. If you believe you are doing this because of love and desire, you are fooling yourself. Everyone here has some experince with love, with break-ups, etc. none ever give the green light when the 'fight for love' talk creeps in.

Good luck.

[Fisherman1967]

No reason that concerns you!!

[Fisherman1967]

Is that not a perfume? Why is that??

[Fisherman1967]

I don't obsess about just anyone!! 1

[Fisherman1967]

FO

[talaniman]

I don't obsess about just anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

You should obsess over NO ONE, tolerate that! Keep it real, or keep it rollin'!!

[Alty]

I don't obsess about just anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Seriously, you're in your 40's? :confused:

[J_9]

Seriously, you're in your 40's? :confused:

Nope, I don't believe it either.