[redhed35]

Just leave her to enjoy the holiday,another email or message might get her thinking you're a little needy.

I understand your concern,however I'm sure she is in contact with her family.

Really you only know her 12 weeks,not a lot of time to really 'know' someone and know their habits.

She's a big girl who can look after herself,she's not in a jungle.

Get busy with your own life and have lots of things to talk about when she gets home.

[CageWalk]

You guys are all right. I even told her not to 'think about home or do anything home related' the whole time she was overseas.

12 weeks isn't a very long time when you put it that way, and fortunately, I find myself feeling less and less for her everyday, which definitely helps the situation.

It's afforded me a 'cooling off' period to get my thoughts in order. I'm starting to realize that maybe and relationship is not the best thing for me right now, but I'll discuss that with her once she returns.

Thanks for help guys. My thoughts were too clouded by concern to think properly before.

[talaniman]

I wouldn't worry. Let her have her fun without playing the hurt role.

[Kitkat22]

Shell be fine. Good luck.

[CageWalk]

She got back and told me she met someone else while over there. She feels an attachment to him because they've been through so much in the past 4 weeks while vacationing.

I told her '-yeh I kind of knew.'

I then told her how 2 years ago, the same thing happened but I was actually in her shoes (that was a true story).

Left it at that and said nothing else. I haven't spoken to her since but its likely I'll end up running into her during class for the rest of semester.

[Kitkat22]

Sorry... I really hope you find happiness.

[talaniman]

You win some, you lose some. Don't ever dwell on what could have been, just refocus!