[levi83]

She called me tonight and we spoke for a little while (6 minutes). She said that she is going to continue paying her part of the rent and that she doesn't want to argue or fight. I assured her that this was still her home and that she can come by whenver she likes. She said she isn't comfortable yet, She also said that she didn't plan things to be this way and what she really wanted was a happy loving together family. She also said she wasn't going to take me to court and get some crazy amount of support from me. Conversation went well I thought and any communication was good and a start. Explained to her that she can call me whenver she likes and that I will listen. She also told a friend today that change doesn't happen in a week. I agree it takes awhile. But at least she is thinking I am changing right? And a good conversation is a start. I wasn't pushy. I didn't talk about me.. I focused the conversation on her and how she was doing and let her know I still love her and there will always be a place in my heart for her.