[Alty]

See the lunch thing means nothing to you because again you know nothing about this guy or the situation. Actually, I think you sound like a very bitter, hurt, unhappy person and you just like to take it out on other people.

Sweetie, we can only give you answers based on the info you post. Like Muddy said, we can't read minds, only the words that you type and the info you provide.

You got answers based on what you wrote, we don't know your "situation" because you haven't given us that info.

It seems like you know the answer already which leads me to wonder why you asked the question.

It's obvious you can't handle the advice, but don't blame us, we based it on what you told us.

[Romefalls19]

I've been quiet so far, reading all of these posts and I do have a few things to say.

1. You're right, we do NOT know this guy so we can't tell you exactly what he is thinking. We go by what our life has taught us, and what previous posters have said on the forum.

2. If you use the wonderful search function on this site, you will find that at least 200 people have posted the Same scenario that you gave us and the guy wasn't interested.

3. If you wanted to hear the answers based on everything that you know about the situation, then post them. Don't post a half scripted story and expect us not to comment strictly on the information provided.

For example; If a friend of yours came to you and said my boyfriend just broke up with me and never wants to speak to me again. Most likely you would give advice on that, what she could have left out was the main reason the broke up, had she cheated on him, you're answer would be different because it changes the whole story.

We are here to help, but can only help with the information you provide us with. We are smart, but not mind readers. Sadly that is one thing God neglected to provide me with.

[talaniman]

Don't want to be any ruder than I usually get, but are you afraid of having sex, or need to know the relationship is solid before you do the wild thing?

Just going by your reactions which means either you're a troll, jacking us up, or are frustrated, out of fear.

Please clarify.