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    lilfyre Posts: 508, Reputation: 98
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    Mar 24, 2006, 07:06 PM
    It is there way of being the man, showing you that they are in charge or superior to you, that they are well basically just disrespect you and have no respect for women in general, and when you take into account that he is cheating on his wife with you (case in point) he has no respect for women and or their feelings. This is why he says things like that. Find an unattached man, with respect and manners, someone that will hopefully love you and respect you and treat you as a person should be treated and if you are lucky. He will not meet some one to walk his dog with and break your heart.

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    #42

    Mar 27, 2006, 09:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dutchess
    ok if he id trying to distance himself why does he still go out in the am with me to walk the dogs, why does he come by my home to see the birds, (last year we bought cockatiels together), why does he call me from his cell (of course, he erases the number immediately) when he wants to tell me something, why does he give me advice on things re: my son, i could go on and on...

    thanks.
    He is distancing you emotionally but maintaining a familiarity so he may return for a booty call. Also he is probably remaining friendly for damage control reasons. My suggestions is you decide if you want emotional involvement, if so, its not him.
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    Mar 28, 2006, 06:34 PM
    Thanks.

    I know I am emotionally involved. I believe he is also to some degree. And yes, you are right he definitely wants a piece - he made that clear this weekend. What can I say I am a jerk I know, but I can't let the feelings go.
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    Mar 29, 2006, 09:16 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by dutchess
    thanks.

    i know i am emotionally involved. i believe he is also to some degree. and yes, you are right he definitely wants a piece - he made that clear this weekend. what can i say i am a jerk i know, but i can't let the feelings go.
    You know, there are a lot of us who have had an affair with a man who is married or already has a commitment to another lover. In the long run, when it happens to you, you will start to despise women like yourself.
    Put yourself in the wife's shoes. How would you feel if your man was seeing another woman, and she knew about you-but just didn't care and continued to see your man? Don't continue to become someone you hate.

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