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    #41

    Mar 11, 2008, 11:22 AM
    It is sleezy no matter which culture you are in . Other cultures sell their children to brothels for money . Sleezy

    The only thing legalization empowers is the Johns. The women are still an abused class legal or not . Consent cannot be implied because so many of the women are forced into the trade... legal... cultually acceptable or not.
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    #42

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:10 PM
    Shocker, I have to agree with tom. Legalizing it will not solve the problem.
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    #43

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:17 PM
    I agree with Tom too. And paying for sex is in itself, self degrading
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    #44

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Dark_crow
    And paying for sex is in itself, self degrading
    Hello DC:

    Yeah, I've heard that from you righty's before. Snicker, snicker... Bwa, ha ha ha ha.

    excon
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    #45

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:38 PM
    Anyone checked with Ron Paul and find out what he says about this?
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    #46

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:41 PM
    Meanwhile, as we're discussing legalizing prostitution, Newsday, the New York Post and the New York Daily News have all called for his resignation. Even the ultra liberal NY Times opened their op-ed today with this:

    New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer could not have been more wrong in his brief public appearance after the world learned that he was suspected of patronizing a prostitution ring. He did not just betray his family in a private matter. He betrayed the public, and it is hard to see how he will recover from this mess and go on to lead the reformist agenda on which he was elected to office.
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    #47

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by George_1950
    Anyone checked with Ron Paul and find out what he says about this?
    Hello George:

    Yes. He's on my side.

    excon
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    #48

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by excon
    Hello George:

    Yes. He's on my side.

    excon
    Ron Paul isn't a righty?
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    #49

    Mar 11, 2008, 12:52 PM
    By all accounts that I have read, Nevada brothels work. Given the scrutiny placed on them by the regulatory authorities I can't believe that any woman working in them are doing so involuntarily.

    They are regulalry checked for health issues.

    Personally I do think that legalization is an answer. Regulation will protect the workers and it will be a source of income to the state. It would also get the mob out of the business.

    And that last point is the biggest reason why Spitzer should resign. Sexual indiscretion is one thing. Bill Clinton survived that. But using a prostitute opens Spitzer to blackmail and corruption and that was the big mistake.
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    #50

    Mar 11, 2008, 01:01 PM
    This account doesn't sound very rosy.

    'It's like you sign a contract to be raped'

    If you believe their PR, Nevada's legal brothels are safe, healthy - even fun - places in which to work. So why do so many prostitutes tell such horrific tales of abuse? -Julie Bindel reports

    There is only one place in the US where brothels are legal, and that's Nevada - a state in which prostitution has been considered a necessary service industry since the days when the place was populated solely by prospecters. There are at least 20 legal brothels in business now. Not so many, you might think, but these state-sanctioned operations punch above their weight in PR terms.

    Take HBO's hit documentary series, Cathouse, which features the most famous of the Nevadan brothels, the Moonlight Bunny Ranch. Tune in and you'd be forgiven for thinking that all prostitutes in Nevada are on to a good thing. The women speak coyly about loving their work, their customers, their bosses. "The series sheds light not only on the numerous joys and challenges of working at a legal brothel," says the HBO website, "but on the therapeutic benefits that customers take with them after a stint at the Ranch."

    Given such great PR, a new book - Prostitution and Trafficking in Nevada: Making the Connections - makes interesting reading. During a two-year investigation, the author, Melissa Farley, visited eight legal brothels in Nevada, interviewing 45 women and a number of brothel owners. Far from enjoying better conditions than those who work illegally, the prostitutes she spoke to are often subject to slave-like conditions.

    Described as "p***y penitentiaries" by one interviewee, the brothels tend to be in the middle of nowhere, out of sight of ordinary Nevadans. (Brothels are officially allowed only in counties with populations of fewer than 400,000, so prostitution remains an illegal - though vast - trade in conurbations such as Las Vegas.) The brothel prostitutes often live in prison-like conditions, locked in or forbidden to leave.

    "The physical appearance of these buildings is shocking," says Farley. "They look like wide trailers with barbed wire around them - little jails." The rooms all have panic buttons, but many women told her that they had experienced violent and sexual abuse from the customers and pimps.

    "I saw a grated iron door in one brothel," says Farley. "The women's food was shoved through the door's steel bars between the kitchen and the brothel area. One pimp starved a woman he considered too fat. She made a friend outside the brothel who would throw food over the fence for her." Another pimp told Farley matter-of-factly that many of the women working for him had histories of sexual abuse and mental ill-health. "Most," he said, "have been sexually abused as kids. Some are bipolar, some are schizophrenic."

    Then there is the fact that legal prostitutes seem to lose the rights ordinary citizens enjoy. From 1987, prostitutes in Nevada have been legally required to be tested once a week for sexually transmitted diseases and monthly for HIV. Customers are not required to be tested. The women must present their medical clearance to the police station and be finger-printed, even though such registration is detrimental: if a woman is known to work as a prostitute, she may be refused health insurance, face discrimination in housing or future employment, or endure accusations of unfit motherhood. In addition, there are countries that will not permit registered prostitutes to settle, so their movement is severely restricted.

    Those who support the system claim that the regulations may help prevent pimping, which they see as a worse form of exploitation to that which occurs in brothels. According to Farley's research though, most women in legal brothels have pimps outside anyway, be they husbands or boyfriends. And, as Chong Kim, a survivor of prostitution who has worked with Farley, says, some of the legal brothel owners "are worse than any pimp. They abuse and imprison women and are fully protected by the state."

    The women are expected to live in the brothels and to work 12- to 14-hour shifts. Mary, a prostitute in a legal brothel for three years, outlines the restrictions. "You are not allowed to have your own car," she notes. "It's like [the pimp's] own little police state." When a customer arrives, a bell rings, and the women immediately have to present themselves in a line-up, so he can choose who to buy.

    Sheriffs in some counties of Nevada also enforce practices that are illegal. In one city, for example, prostitutes are not allowed to leave the brothel after 5pm, are not permitted in bars, and, if entering a restaurant, must use a back door and be accompanied by a man.

    So how did Farley gain access to her interviewees? Those in control of the women were confident that they would not be honest about the conditions, she says. "Pimps love to brag, and I know how to listen," she adds. Although left alone with the women during interviews, Farley noted that they were all very nervous, constantly looking out for the brothel owners.

    Investigating the sex industry - even the legal part - can be dangerous. During one visit to a brothel, Farley asked the owner what the women thought of their work. "I was polite," she writes in her book, "as he condescendingly explained what a satisfying and lucrative business prostitution was for his 'ladies'. I tried to keep my facial muscles expressionless, but I didn't succeed. He whipped a revolver out of his waistband, aimed it at my head and said: 'You don't know nothing about Nevada prostitution, lady. You don't even know whether I will kill you in the next five minutes.'"

    Farley found that the brothel owners typically pocket half of the women's earnings. Additionally, the women must pay tips and other fees to the staff of the brothel, as well as finders' fees to the cab drivers who bring the customers. They are also expected to pay for their own condoms, wet wipes, and use of sheets and towels. It is rare, the women told Farley, to refuse a customer. One former Nevada brothel worker wrote on a website: "After your airline tickets, clothing, full-price drinks and other miscellaneous fees you leave with little. To top it off, you are... fined for just about everything. Fall asleep on your 14-hour shift and get $100 [£50] fine, late for a line-up, $100-500 in fines." (The women generally negotiate directly with the men over the money; what they get depends on the quality of the brothel. It can be anything from $50 for oral sex to $1,000 for the night, but that doesn't take account of the brothel's cut.)

    Farley found a "shocking" lack of services for women in Nevada wishing to leave prostitution. "When prostitution is considered a legal job instead of a human rights violation," says Farley, "why should the state offer services for escape?" More than 80% of those interviewed told Farley they wanted to leave prostitution.

    The effect of all this on the women in the brothels is "negative and profound," according to Farley. "Many were suffering what I'd describe as the traumatic effects of ongoing sexual assaults, and those that had been in the brothels for some time were institutionalised. That is, they were passive, timid, compliant, and deeply resigned."

    "No one really enjoys getting sold," says Angie, who Farley interviewed. "It's like you sign a contract to be raped."

    Meanwhile, illegal brothels are on the increase in Nevada, as they are in other parts of the world where brothels are legalised. Nevada's illegal prostitution industry is already nine times greater than the state's legal brothels. "Legalising this industry does not result in the closing down of illegal sex establishments," says Farley, "it merely gives them further permission to exist."

    Farley found evidence, for example, that the existence of state-sanctioned brothels can have a direct effect on attitudes to women and sexual violence. Her survey of 131 young men at the University of Nevada found the majority viewed prostitution as normal, assumed that it was not possible to rape a prostitute, and were more likely than young men in other states to use women in both legal and illegal prostitution.

    The solution, Farley believes, is to educate people about the realities of legalised abuse of women. "Once the people of Nevada learn of [prostitutes'] suffering and emotional distress, and their lack of human rights, they, like me, will be persuaded that legal prostitution is an institution that just can't be fixed up or made a little better. It has to be abolished." The prevailing attitude in Nevada remains as it was a few centuries back though - that men have sexual "needs" that they have a right to fulfil. Outside one of the legal brothels a sign reads: "He who hesitates, masturbates."
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    #51

    Mar 11, 2008, 02:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by George_1950
    $4,500 per pop worth of cool at that.

    PLUS she was allowed free access to the in-room bar!

    (For $4,000 I think this involved - minimally - barnyard animals.)
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    #52

    Mar 11, 2008, 03:04 PM
    I really feel sorry for his wife…what misery she must be going through.


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    #53

    Mar 11, 2008, 05:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Dark_crow
    I really feel sorry for his wife…what misery she must be going through.


    And his 3 daughters.
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    Mar 11, 2008, 05:27 PM
    Something that no one has mentioned so far. His action was against the law, therefore he had to fear exposure. With that scenario, anyone who knew of those illegal actions was in a position to blackmail the Governor. What would the pay-off be? Political favors? Business favors? Of course, blackmail won't work now, but we may find some hard to explain actions back down the trail.

    Even if adultry and law violations don't worry you, the above should.
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    Mar 11, 2008, 06:43 PM
    But what was this "dangerous" sex he was wanting.
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    Mar 11, 2008, 06:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    But what was this "dangerous" sex he was wanting.
    Hello Padre:

    I heard it was a 14" dildo, circumcised of course, cause Sptizer's a Jew.

    excon
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    #57

    Mar 12, 2008, 06:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    But what was this "dangerous" sex he was wanting.
    I'm just curious as to why you want to know? ;)
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    #58

    Mar 13, 2008, 05:21 AM
    Smoking Gun has a pic of his hooker:
    The Smoking Gun: Photos Of Eliot Spitzer's Hooker - March 12, 2008

    Might I be first to say that she is hot!
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    Mar 13, 2008, 07:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Galveston1
    Something that no one has mentioned so far. His action was against the law, therefore he had to fear exposure. With that scenario, anyone who knew of those illegal actions was in a position to blackmail the Governer. What would the pay-off be? Political favors? Business favors? Of course, blackmail won't work now, but we may find some hard to explain actions back down the trail.

    Even if adultry and law violations don't worry you, the above should.
    Actually I did mention that in reply #49. Personally I couldn't care less whether Spitzer or any other politician has extra-marital sex. Anyone with the ego to seek elective office is likely to have sexual urges above the norm.

    But my problem is that he broke the law, then broke other laws in trying to cover it up. That and the gross hypocrisy to take the ethical stand he has while he was doing this.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    But what was this "dangerous" sex he was wanting.
    According to what I read, it was sans condom.

    Quote Originally Posted by NeedKarma
    Smoking Gun has a pic of his hooker:

    Might I be first to say that she is hot!
    Definitely a cutie. She lives right near where my company HQ is! <eg>
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    Mar 13, 2008, 07:19 AM
    [QUOTE=ScottGem] According to what I read, it was sans condom.



    That's not exactly the whole story I heard - yes, sans condom, but, ummm, not exactly face up missionary position.

    Cough, cough.

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