[jasongano67]

So do you think she will deal with it over time?

[Wondergirl]

so do you think she will deal with it over time?

We don't know. Stay in touch.

[Cat1864]

From what you have said, everything was fine until about a month ago. So, for 10 months she was content if not happy with what happened.

It isn't the act that she had or has a problem with. It is her perception of what happened that seems to have changed. That is not something you can 'fix.' It is up to her to accept that she wasn't your 'first.'

In her defense, if you knew she thought it was your first time too and you didn't correct her then she could see it as you told her a lie. If she sees it as a broken trust, then you have already done all you can to make amends. She has to allow herself to trust you and for the 'damage' to heal. Have you ever given her any other reasons to think you were lying to her?

I will tell you this and maybe it will help her. My husband was a lot more experienced than I was when we got together. It didn't bother me because I feel that everything we do together is a 'first' for us. That makes it special between us.

Good luck.

[jasongano67]

Okay thanks ladies for all the help I really appriciate it.