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    #21

    Jun 2, 2007, 03:57 PM
    Hey bush, maybe so. I was going to ask Mommy if there was any good dirty talk goin' on. I have a few minutes to kill. :p
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    Jun 2, 2007, 04:00 PM
    Sorry guys.
    Right idea, wrong tree ;)
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    Jun 2, 2007, 04:02 PM
    Okay CB.

    Sorry Keisha. Ignore the other stuff. You have been given some good advice here.

    You need to figure out if you want to keep putting up with that kind of treatment from your man. I know I wouldn't.
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    #24

    Jun 2, 2007, 04:03 PM
    Pssst Ruby no W here ;)
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    Jun 2, 2007, 04:11 PM
    Sorry, automatic reflex.
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    Jun 4, 2007, 12:34 PM
    Ummm I don't know all I can say is that I'm going through a lighter similar situation... my boyfriend has a child and another on on the way from the same girl and she comes to his sisters house... where he lives so he can see his son... but as long as you trust him it's okay... when you enter a relation when someone has kids there's a 75% chance that they are going to go back with them so you have to be mentally prepared for that...
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    Oct 28, 2007, 08:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by keshia
    Hi, everybody I just feeling a lil depress about a situation i'm in. I meet this married man about 4yrs ago and we started kicking or what ever, he told me he was married and had a child, but him and his wife wasn't getting alone to good. So he stayed there at the him and his wife got for a couple or months then he actually move in with me and my daughter. So from that point him and his wife are separated from each other and i help him with his daughter and everything. Him and his wife have a resort together in FL. and they take the daughter down there for a week for vacation. Is that right for him to do that even though he had that before my time? To me the only contact he has with her (wife) is when he has his daughter as far as i know. Would things get better between us or do u think he might go back to his wife?
    Sweetie, by the way your type/talk(?), you sound extremely young -- and I would bank that he is young as well. By young, I mean under -- what(?) -- 21? I hate to say it, but lack of education has gotten you stuck in a situation that seems too good to be true. And it is. He married this woman, and they have a child. "he treats me good." since when is it wonderful to be sleeping with a man that has a wife and baby -- one that comes to you when he feels like it. Believe me, his wife knows about him. She may not know all the particulars, but she knows what kind of scum she is married to. She too probably sits home and cries herself to sleep because she doesn't know what to do -- she's got a cheating/lying husband that she can hang on to -- for the sake of her baby, OR she can venture out on her on. She stays because she probably can't support the baby alone. Sounds like he's such an upstanding guy, she probably couldn't count on child support either. She probably loves him too -- just like you. He's got it made, doesn't he? He's happily ping-ponging back and forth, and the two of you are sitting there thinking you are the one he will stay with -- exclusively. It's not going to happen. Get your ged/diploma. Got to community college -- PULL YOURSELF UP. You will find men with high aspirations, future good jobs -- men that want to be faithful. You are worth so much more than his lies and deceit. Has anyone here (or anywhere else) told you you are doing the right thing? Is everyone wrong? You can keep asking, but nobody is going tell you to stay with this skum. Send hi back to his doublewide and pray for his wife and child as well. You HAVE to! You have to!

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