[fix-what-you-broke]

Just a thought, you could end all this uncertanty now.
Pick up the phone, call her, and ask her right out if you scared her away with your feelings.
Maybe she thinks its too soon to be confessing your love for her, maybe she doesn't want a boyfriend right now and doesn't know how to tell you.
With the IM thing, the next time you are both online send her an email, tell her you are sorry for what you said, but tell her you just wanted to be honest with her and you didn't want to scare her or push her away, its just you really like her and didn't want to blow it.
Ask her to be honest with you too, ask her what she wants out of life, if she sees you in her future at all.
It can't hurt, and then at least you will know once and for all.

[MIAPP]

Ok, so I made the move. I saw her on IM and talked to her very casually at first. Then I asked her if we could talk on the phone somtime. I told her I had to talk to her about something and it would not take long. Until this point she was responding to me, after I started this she totally started ignoring me. I said, 'ok I have to go read for my class, if you think it is OK to talk, let me know, if not, no big deal. Have a goodnight!' I noticed after 15-20 minutes of no response she signed off. I think I got my answer and I have no clue but I felt good that I at least proposed to talk. I wanted to get this over with and at least I put forth the effort. She is too flakey, I think I am done with this girl. She may respond today and want to talk, in which case I still would, but for all intents and purposes at this present time, I think itz over. I feel somewhat free and liberated, there is still some hurt but not as much. I have no idea why??

[kirriky]

From what I've read, looks like she's simply not interested. Maybe she thinks you came on too strong that time you spent together, or made yourself too available, maybe she realized she didn't really like you all that much, maybe she thinks you are OK as a distant friend but nothing more, or maybe she's simply forgetting you, seeing as to how your is a long-distance 'relationship', and finding new friends. (which is the best thing YOU could do, too).

And she can't be bothered to have this CONVERSATION with you because its always awkward to have people profess their feeling for you - to which you do not correspond.

That's just my opinion, but I can just see myself in that girl... sometimes spending some time together and/or hooking up makes you realise that you don't like the person, rather than strengthen the link. And if the guy keeps insisting and talking over the messenger about HAVING A TALK etc etc... it becomes annoying and awkward.