[samnaomi83]

I am more stronger today because of the incident that happened this morning. I totally feel like he played me by letting his mother answer the door. But I guess when you want space from someone this is what you do to get it. Right?

[sypher373]

Keep that feelnig and use it as motivation to keep your going toward what you need to do to make yourself feel better.

Don't let what he did dwell on your mind, instead keep that feeling that makes you want to move on.

[samnaomi83]

What should I do if he calls me? How should I act towards him? What is a good way to show someone what they are missing without being to obvious.

[talaniman]

Be sociable, but be brief, and always so busy to talk long, or return calls . Be unavailable to him. Stay focused on you and what you enjoy.

[samnaomi83]

What if he never calls me? If I wait two weeks should I give him a call to see what he's up to. Or is that to soon to to be calling him. I miss him so much. I always talk to him everyday so it's hard not talking to him on the phone. But I guess if really loves me and miss me he should call me. What should I do? Because I feel like I am going to break the space thing tonight. Help me fight this feeling.

[joeysgirl]

The best thing to do is f**k him then forget him you don't have feelings for him any way

[samnaomi83]

I love him so much and I don't want to be without him.

[tiredandlonely]

I love him so much and I don't want to be without him.

How long has it been since he broke up with you?

[saraispiel19]

I think your putting wαααyy too much thought into this.. your literαlly mαking it sound like he's the αir you breαthe- your wαy too preoccupied αbout him, αnd I bet he's hαnging out with his buddies like nothing.. why don't you do the sαme?. relαx girl it's not the end of the world. Prince Chαrming αlwαys comes bαck, it's the frogs thαt jump from lilly pαd to lilly pαd...

[momincali]

Sam - He hooked with a girl and lied about it. Is that the part you love? Or how about the fact that he didn't even have the cojones to tell you there was a problem (or many) in the relationship? Is that the part you love? How about that he got his mommy to do his dirty work, more lacking in the cojones department wouldn't you say? I can respect someone who realizes that a relationship is not working for him and then, like a real man, steps up to the plate, and takes care of his own business. Don't tell me it was too hard for him or he was so angry, hurt, afraid with you that he couldn't do it. What kind of a man does that? A child.

Move on. There is someone out there waiting for you. Someone who will respectfully call you to the carpet when you've done wrong, who will praise you when you're right and who will support you when you need it. But you'll never find him holding on to your past. Looking in the rear view mirror doesn't allow anyone to go forward successfully.

[talaniman]

I love him so much and I don't want to be without him.

So, you want more abuse, lying and cheating? Call him now then, and I'm sure he has more to give. Since you don't care about yourself why should I? Why should he? You love I'm more than you love yourself and that is not healthy. :(

[samnaomi83]

We broke up Monday night. I know everybody is telling me I should move on. But he didn't cheat on me he said that he was just talking to the girl on the phone just like I was doing by talking to the guy on the train. I feel like this whole situation could have been avoid if I had never started taking the train with that guy. Since then I have stop taking the train with that guy. When I told that guy that my boyfriend broke up with me can you believe he had this big goofy smile on his face. I think he was under the impression that now my boyfriend is out of the picture he would have a chance with me. I feel that's totally wrong. Some people would say cheer up, but he said stop thinking about it. Easy for him to say he don't know girlfriend that he love and care about. Why should I listen to him. I am giving my boyfriend some space I hope he calls me so we can talk about this situation. Do you think it's wrong for me wanting to solve this problem. I want some closure.

[saraispiel19]

definition of closure: α bringing to αn end; α conclusion.

this my sαmnαomi you αre not willing to do (give him some spαce, not worry αbout cαlling him, blαh blαh blαh.. etc.)

smile on trαin guys fαce = boyfriend wαs right αbout him (being αngry & jeαlous... ) however thαt you do not tell your current ex-- not so good.

[samnaomi83]

saraispiel19 are you telling me that I should tell my ex about what the train guy said. Listen I know that why everybody telling me to give him space that's why I have'nt called him. I truly believe that if he loves me he won't let me go just like that.

[saraispiel19]

No wαy jose! If you do tαlk to him don't even tell him he wαs right αbout trαin guy- ugh nαsty situαtion. Here's the sαnαrio:

you : " you were right αbout [trαin guy] when i told him it wαs over he smiled αnd sαid____"

ex: "see i told you, i knew it" <-- something of the sort

No point see, except for the fαct he wαs right αnd he'll be αll "i told you so"-- my husbαnd gets like thαt αnd so do mαny other men when they know their right αbout certαin situαtions, then they bring it bαck... "well i wαs right αbout trαin guy so you cαn't tαlk to tαxi guy or whαtever"

αnd spαce gives this guy time to cool off αnd not feel pressure I KNOW! αs women we tend to umm... let's sαy sufficαte them when they turn unresponsive. hαhα I've been guilty I αdmit:)

[samnaomi83]

Don't worry guys am not calling him. I'll see what happens in the next couple days then I'll make my decision. What I should do about him. I feel like maybe he doesn't love me anymore.Why would he do this? One day last week when we were together he told me that he can't live without me. I feel so upset and hurt by this whole situation. Everybodys telling me to move on to someone else, but I don't think that's the best idea right now for me. I still love my ex. I'm giving it time I haven't call him. I'm being strong about the whole thing but I miss him a lot. I don't want to be with another guy right but people are giving me that advice. You have to understand I put a lot into this relationship. I did a lot for my boyfriend. He also did a lot for me. I hope he never forgets all I did for him. I don't know if he's messing with this girl but I know that he's talking to this girl. The girl is 17 yrs old and my boyfriend is 21. Maybe he won't have nothing in common with the girl and realize that he's love me. But I don't know how to forgive him. He really hurt me by lettimg his mother do his dirty work. Me and his mother are really close and for him to do that is bad. Why is this happening to me. I am so sad about this whole thing. Someone help me out.

[joeysgirl]

My boyfriend broke up with me to because he's not man enough to ignore what people say at school... we was together for a month and I cry myself to sleep and its been 5 days since he dumped me so hun I know what your going through try and go out and have fun... to get him off your mind... kk... are you looking around at other guys?I'm not I can't and I have been asked out 20 times since he dumped me.. I won't date anyone else he knows how I feel about him and everything his parents tell him every day that he made the biggest mistake of his life for leaving me because of rumors... he didn't even askme about the rumors he broke up with me the next day... how gay is that?

[talaniman]

You have to understand I put a lot into this relationship.

I do understand , but you must understand that he has moved on, and so should you. Accept that its over and put him behind you.

[joeysgirl]

Umm lets see where to start okay he has moved on yes granted but the way he did it hurts... I understand where she's coming from... samnaomi83 I know how your feeling its really hard to get over someone you think you love I'm doing it to because he won't come back to me... my friends are spying on joey so I know whether he s happy or not... when we were dating he told me he loved me and that he would never brake up with me he couldn't sleep sometimes because I'm alll he thinks about... check out my myspace page go to the search box and type chenoa colburn the one with the dog on it and it says hot stuff and looka t my blogs the one that says joey stephens on it... read what he said back to it... how much of bull is that...

[joeysgirl]

Well I'm not saying completely that you should go out and find someone new what I'm saying really is go out and have fun with anybody but don't let your guard down... but still have fun or have a couple girls com over and rent some movies hang out with your girls...