[vlee]

You are searching for help, and that is all that matters. Keep working, don't throw in the towel. You may have to be the force that drives this whole family in the same direction for a bit, but you will all benefit from becoming a team. Good luck to you all.

[kp2171]

Well... also, your husband does need to make sure that his kids respect you and you both need a united stand on how the house is run and what kind of behavior is respectful and what is not acceptable.