[JaniyahW_]

No this is not a normal relationship , in my opinion you should keep doing everything you can to get a job and leave him alone because if he really misses you and wants you back in his life he would be helping you look for a job yet he's making dating profiles and meeting up with women : he's no good for you , I'm sure you'll be able to find someone that treats you better.

[joypulv]

I AM glad you got the cold hard money part out in the open because it revealed a deep double standard in him.
Studies do show over and over that money is number one on the list of relationship problems.
It's done - don't get embroiled in how he sees the other couple. It's just clouding the issue.
Maybe when you are somewhere where you can get a job he will see you in a new light (all over again).

[needadvise00]

I AM glad you got the cold hard money part out in the open because it revealed a deep double standard in him.
Studies do show over and over that money is number one on the list of relationship problems.
It's done - don't get embroiled in how he sees the other couple. It's just clouding the issue.
Maybe when you are somewhere where you can get a job he will see you in a new light (all over again).

There is another major detail to this story. A year and a half ago, I dropped him off at the airport so he could go to a work training out of state. Well, he cheated on me during that trip. Claimed he was out of his mind drunk and things got out of hand and begged for me to forgive him.