[ScottGem]

Scott, from a psychological and developmental point of view, I agree. I hope you know I am not advising her to do this, but to better understand the motives behind it, and to not feel so guilty and constrained over sexuality.

I don't think anything posted in this thread would make anyone "feel so guilty and constrained over sexuality". This is not about the OP's sexuality. This is about predators, or even horny teens, looking to take advantage of someone to satisfy their own interests. This is about the possibility of satisfying those interests coming back to haunt someone. You have brought totally extraneous factors into the question, and, in doing so, have appeared to condone this type of actions.