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				No & no. & yes & yes 
			
		 
	 
 So is part of your parents' beef with the two "no"s?--chores and school grades?
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				So is part of your parents' beef with the two "no"s?--chores and school grades? 
			
		 
	 
 Partially.
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        So why give them so much power? Claim some of your own, for yourself -- do your chores willingly and without complaint and work hard in school. Those two things will serve you very well in your future. They are two things important to having power.
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        I rather not, I rather be away from the far as possible
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				i rather not, i rather be away from the far as possible 
			
		 
	 
 But then you lose your power and have caved. You admit they are mentally and emotionally stronger than you are.
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				But then you lose your power and have caved. You admit they are mentally and emotionally stronger than you are. 
			
		 
	 
 I was diagnosed with psychosis &.. obviously they're stronger
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				i was diagnosed with psychosis & .. obviously they're stronger 
			
		 
	 
 Who diagnosed you? You are free, and out and about with a psychosis?
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				Who diagnosed you? You are free, and out and about with a psychosis? 
			
		 
	 
 Yea, but I'm stable now, I used to be in a psych ward
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				yea, but i'm stable now, i used to be in a psych ward 
			
		 
	 
 Medications?
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				Medications? 
			
		 
	 
 I have them, don't need them anymore though. I been completely fine
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				i have them, don't need them anymore though. i been completely fine 
			
		 
	 
 Sorry, Charlie. If you have been institutionalized for a psychosis, you are going to be taking heavy-duty meds for the rest of your life.
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				Sorry, Charlie. If you have been institutionalized for a psychosis, you are going to be taking heavy-duty meds for the rest of your life. 
			
		 
	 
 Wasn't for that, it was for cutting & such, then they diagnosed me & shiiiit
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				wasn't for that, it was for cutting & such, then they diagnosed me & shiiiit 
			
		 
	 
 But you said, "i was diagnosed with psychosis."
 
C'mon. Tell us in reasonable detail what is going on -- psychosis, cutting, psycho, murderer for a father. Are you female?
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				But you said, "i was diagnosed with psychosis." 
 
C'mon. Tell us in reasonable detail what is going on -- psychosis, cutting, psycho, murderer for a father. Are you female? 
			
		 
	 
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        How long have you been cutting and in response to what? Your father?
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				How long have you been cutting and in response to what? your father? 
			
		 
	 
 Been self harming since I was a little kid. & partially.
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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