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    #21

    Dec 27, 2012, 06:19 PM
    He is the first guy you had sex with and he keeps himself around and available to you. I think you like the attention from this older creep. This man is abusing, has abused you and you don't even realize it.
    Stop allowing this. How far is your school from where you live? How do the other kids get to school?
    Stop disrespecting your boyfriend and leave this guy alone.
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    #22

    Dec 27, 2012, 06:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by playbunny_1995 View Post
    I probably have some feelings about him but I just don't want nothing with him I wanna be done
    Well if you want to be done, be done. Stop taking rides and breakfast from him. Stop talking to him. Leave him alone. Does this guy work? Why is he so available to you?
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    #23

    Dec 27, 2012, 06:32 PM
    It's like 47 min of walking with car it's just 10 min the other kids walk I walk sometime not in bad weather and we don't have those school bus we do but they are for the special Ed people yeah he work when he drop me of to school he go straight to work
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    #24

    Dec 27, 2012, 06:36 PM
    You need to find another way to school. You have the power to stop this. Do it.
    Are you still having sex with this man?
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    #25

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:07 PM
    No last time was last month
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    #26

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:08 PM
    But he said he want to have sex again
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    #27

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by playbunny_1995 View Post
    But he said he want to have sex again
    What will happen when you get pregnant?
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    #28

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:24 PM
    No I make sure he wears condom
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    #29

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by playbunny_1995 View Post
    But he said he want to have sex again
    Where do you live (general area). Depending on where you are, it may have been illegal for him to have sex with you at 16. It may still be illegal. If he is pressuring to have sex again, you NEED to report this to the police. Or at least talk to someone at school.
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    #30

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by playbunny_1995 View Post
    No I make sure he wears condom
    Couples who use condoms get pregnant.

    I thought you wanted to stop and to get away from him.
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    #31

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:26 PM
    That's what I'm planing to
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    #32

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by playbunny_1995 View Post
    That's what I'm planing to
    No, no planning anything. Now. Stop. No Contact.
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    #33

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:29 PM
    I do and I will
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    #34

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by playbunny_1995 View Post
    I do and I will
    No "I will." No more contact. It's over.
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    #35

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:33 PM
    Ok...
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    #36

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:33 PM
    What should I do if I see him he Live close to me he sees me when I walk
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    #37

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:34 PM
    No contact.
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    #38

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:37 PM
    Ok...
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    #39

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:38 PM
    You are cheating on your boyfriend with this creep and he will no doubt have sex with you again. This guy is a creep. What he has done to you is wrong. He has you so brainwashed you don't even realize it. That is what pedophiles do.
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    #40

    Dec 27, 2012, 07:39 PM
    Walk a different way so it is not close to his house. No email, no texting, no phone calls, no talking in person, no being together. Nothing. No contact at all.

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