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Hi people. I previously posted about the problem iv faced with my ex. She recently wanted to tell me over dinner that she was moving away. And since then she has decided that it is no longer worth saving this relationship because she is wanting to move away to London like her sisters have done. We always talked about making a fresh start in the past if it was right but She said she needs to do this for herself which I agree as she needs to learn how to be independent as she's 23. Me being 31. We been together almost 5years. Iam finding it hard to move on so quickly but know things are getting better and am making positive steps. We agreed that there were underlying issues that caused the breakdown of this relationship. I wasn't shore if it would be good if we should be friends as its still fresh but have seen her recently and have discussed the relationship. She tells me not to tex her at times as she wants us to move on, but is still
Happy to be friends and keep things civil. I feel it helps me to move on if I see her occasionally. Is this a good idea? Because she does won't to keep in contact and I wonder how she may feel different towards me when she's moved away being on her own?? Will she miss me and can it rekindle a new relationship??

You can't remain friends AND move on... sorry, it doesn't work that way... its only going to constant remind you every time you see, talk or write to her.

Unless you are a gluten for punishment and LIKE to abuse yourself... then make a clean break and never communicate with her again.