[jjohnbboyd]

Ok, I have two other kids by another from years ago and she gave up her rights to my kids and put them in foster care. They are now 3 and 4. I've been fighting for them for four years now. The girl I'm with now have a criminal background for assault. So cps tells me if I want my kids then I have to get rid of her because she cause my first two not to come because of her criminal background. Because I love her sooo much, I was sneaking to continue to be with her so that when my kids come home I can have a family them. I was nervouse raising two kids on my own with no other family members to help me. I thought I was building a foundation for my kids and giving them a better lif than I had. So one day my girl that I'm with now gets real angry because one of my friend girls from college sent me a text message saying to me her in the food court so when can study. So my girl starts slapping me and tearing up my apartment because she was angry. So I kicked her out and put her clothes out and then she called the police and said I pushed her down. So now I have a assault case and my lawyer said its going to stop me from getting my kids that I've been fighting for four years now. My lawyer said he can get the case dismissed if she testify on my behalf but she is not answering the phone. It looks like like I've lost my kids, my family with her and my freedom. Smh all I wanted was a family for me and my kids. I've been trying to break this generation curse because I've been in foster care as a kid also. Don't look like I have much luck

Smh I'm stupid and weak minded. I think I fall in love to fast

[Wondergirl]

Smh I'm stupid and weak minded. I think I fall in love to fast

I think you like to be needed and to take care of people and to rescue women. Those are good things that you want to learn how to control in yourself.

[jjohnbboyd]

I think you like to be needed and to take care of people and to rescue women. Those are good things that you want to learn how to control in yourself.

So wondergirl do u think I should give up on the relationship? Do you think she is seeing someone else? I'm asking from a woman point of view

[Wondergirl]

I think you need to take a break from women for at least six months, save up some money, and get your life together again. Get that DNA test done too.

Post on here and we can help you through those six months.

[jjohnbboyd]

I think you need to take a break from women for at least six months, save up some money, and get your life together again. Get that DNA test done too.

Post on here and we can help you through those six months.

Ok I want to accept the help from you guys. What do I do I do to get this help?

[Wondergirl]

Ok I want to accept the help from you guys. What do I do I do to get this help?

Continue to post here and let us know what your day is like and how you are handling your life.

Do you have an immediate question about any of this?