[Parajr]

I have to say Para that I disagree with you.
I have been with both a rather large man and an average sized man, and I would have to say that size honestly does not matter. I had far more fulfilling, fun, satisfying sex with the average sized man then I ever did with the large man. I am a firm believer that it is not the size, it is how the man that uses it that makes all the difference in the world.

I know that it is possible to have excellent sex with a average penis, but I just saying that physically you have a better reach with a longer arm. Even if you never saw the size, you would know a difference in size from the sensation.

[Anayden]

Honestly size only matters if you are only like 3in. A good 5 or 6 is pretty good. But you also can be a 8 or 9 and can't work your penis. That is THE WORSE! When a guy has a nice penis but don't know what to do with it. Its annoying. But I guess I wouldn't go lower than a 5... well I am married now so it doesn't matter. Average penis size for a caucasian male is 5 - 5 1/2 inches and in african americans its 6 1/2 - 7 inches. I hope that helped you. I mean in the quote of famous comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, "Its not the size that matter, its the motion in the ocean. But you can't get to England from America in a tug boat." :D And actually the top 2/3 of the vagina has NO nerve endings so... there you go.

[freebird1981]

To me personally size does not matter, again its how you use it that counts. My ex was bigger than my partner but it makes no diffrerence to me whatsoever, and I am the first to admit sex with my current partner is BETTER than it was with my ex... as in... with my ex there was no affection,no kissing,no variety,just him on top all the time with the lights out... now with my man, omg that's all I can say, yup he's a bit smaller but I won't loose sleep over it,far from it.

[smoothy]

Unless the poor woman resembles the Holland Tunnel in certain aspects it won't matter is its anywhere in the average range. Now the poor sole with only a few inches when excited... well that's a special case.

[AsherBlu85]

OK, this is an age old question for the ladies...
Does the size of the male organ matter??
What in your opinion is the optimum size?

I don't think size is a big issue ONLY if you know how to work it

[kepi]

I think size matters to an extend. I mean, if you have anything below 4 inches, then you will need to find a way to make sure the partner is equally pleased. And if you're over 7 inches, you have to be careful: the average vaginal capacity is 6-7 inches. I know someonw who has a 9-incher and hates it because he can never have sex without worrying/tearing the vaginal walls. And many of his partners complain that they'd rather have a guy with a 6 incher.

[Krs]

Size does matter... but Its all in the moves, not the size! :)

[smoothy]

I've found it more important that a man know what to do OUT of bed.

Frankly...this question is like asking guys "Does it REALLY matter how tight she is? or how big her breasts are?"

The question is going to get you a different answer from everyone you meet. I think size DOES matter....but not as much as men think it does. I would say that I wouldn't be satisfied with 2" but I certainly don't want 12"...except...really...if I loved him, it woudn't matter in the least.

Edited because Frank and I were getting too close, "Frankly".

Well, I will admit while Tighter feels better, but looser allows the fun to last much longer, I've known women who had mussel control that could clamp down so hard it almost hurt.. As far as breast size? I for one care less about size than I do shape. If they have a great shape then they are great even if they are an "A" cup like my wife. Who at 42 has natural breasts some 16 year old girls would envy.

[smoothy]

MummaCrash, I Haven't figured out how to comment on posts so here goes... While I find no issue with my wife's breast size she does despiratly wish she had C or D cups...

[hedgepig]

Not at all. Sometimes it can be too big (even small ones) when they're used wrong. Guys care too much. Gals don't! As long as it is there is all that matters.

[kirriky]

I'd say that with a certain range (15-20cm) skill matters much more than size. And outside that range, skill can do wonders.
Another point is that there's also a visual/psychological side to it. When you first see/touch it, big can be hot and impressive, and small can be disappointing. But once in bed, small can be skilful and big clumsy.

[goldos mom]

I don't think size really matters, as long as he knows what he's doing and if he can keep it up for more than 5 minutes!, but, I would have to say that is nice to see something bigger than the regular, once in a while... I guess that's what porn is for. Just like men get tired of seeing the same ol' thing, some women get tired of seeing the same ol' size!! ;)

To tell you the truth, the best I have had is a 6 inch, but,, I have had a 8-9 inch before,, and trust me,, they ARE interesting, and nice to look at!!

[Andreas_111]

Experts say it's the thickness not the length that matters more! At great lenghts it can even be painful for the woman!

[UnwantedHero]

Here's a quick question for the ladies... if there's big and small what about having small but fat or is long and thin better?

[atl-shygurl]

It sort of matters but if he doesn't know what to do with it then no it doesn't matter

[here4BD]

OK, this is an age old question for the ladies...
Does the size of the male organ matter??
What in your opinion is the optimum size?

There's no hard and fast rule... but I will say I wouldn't want anything bigger than an average size - 5 to 6 inches does everything I need - Plus - If you read the kama sutra you would note that not only penis size varies but also vaginal canals lengths and sizes vary - so maybe it's got more to do with "good fit". For any guys out there concerned cause they are maybe 2 or 3 inches - learn great techniques on how to use it - an enthusiastic skilled lover is better than a "dud" who's hung like a mule. Hope this helps.

[greenopal56]

ok how about this girls....two guys both can use it equally well, but one is a couple inches bigger...which would you chose?

Well, if the smaller guy looks like brad pitt and the bigger guy looks like a homeless person, I'm prob going to go for the smaller guy...

If they are both equally good looking, aka not like homeless dudes, then it'll prob have 2 look at it over a personal level. Who am I more attracted to? So their actual size doesn't factor into the issue.

[Kattalover]

To me, length doesn't matter (well, it does when it's longer than 6" because then sex gets uncomfortable), but girth does. The thicker the better. In the end, though, it's the guy who matters, not the size of his equipment.

[hedgepig]

Sometimes it can be too big. Don't you think?

[kp2171]

The only thing id add here is while I think its most important a guy knows his lovers needs, likes, etc... I know two women personally who had an added mental charge because their men were well endowed... a woman with a bigger bra size doesn't make her more sexually gifted, but it might push the right buttons on us dumb males... likewise, a man who is bigger isn't necessarily more talented than one who isn't as well endowed, but the extra mental charge might make some difference.

One friend, now divorced, lamented the loss of her ex's unit. He wasn't great in bed, wasn't good to her, but apparently his size and lasting power enabled her to get hers if she was willing to work for it. All she wanted in the divorce was her car, the house, and that piece of flesh at her convenience. Two out of three isn't bad, I guess...