[blove35]

Well she did contact me after 4 weeks to see if I had canceled her membership that I'm paying I told her when we broke up that I could cancel it so she told me that she would be going to the gym on Saturday to see if she can get out of it I just don't understand why she's worried about it I'm paying for it anyway.

[DoulaLC]

Maybe she doesn't want to feel that she owes you anything, that she is somehow indebted to you. If she wants to break things off, she likely wants to do so completely.

[blove35]

Well you think she would at least call to say I canceled it?

[DoulaLC]

If you were paying for it, you should call the gym and find out if it has been canceled.

[talaniman]

Its your money, your business, so handle your own business, then you don't have to worry about what she does, or why.

[blove35]

I was honest right from the beginning I've explained to her that it was all a joke I think we did move in too quick I also told her that if I was going to cheat I don't think I would be living with me I told her that she the only one I love and there's nobody else I just don't understand they tell you they love you very much and the next thing you know there gone? I've told her on are last conversation that what I did was wrong but does not make me feel the way about her I lover her she then replied I don't want to talk about it she so I asked her why the call she told me she was going to the gym and cancel the membership I've already explained to her when we did break up the I'm stuck with it and not to worry about it any ideas?

[DoulaLC]

Let her go... she knows how you feel. If she changes her mind, she will contact you.

Consider this an important lesson learned and make sure you don't repeat in any future relationships some of the things you know should have been handled differently.