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    Mar 18, 2011, 03:23 AM
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    i apologised and said id take the test now now dont want me to see my boyfriend anymore i think thats unfair i love him and i dont see ho w they can do that to me in trying but im not going to stop seeing him they can have my stupid door i dont care they can't make me stop seeing him i dont think thats fair he didnt do anything wrong im so angry with them what am i never sllowed to have a boyfriend
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    Mar 18, 2011, 03:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by zahara14 View Post
    i apologised and said id take the test now now dont want me to see my boyfriend anymore i think thats unfair i love him and i dont see ho w they can do that to me in trying but im not going to stop seeing him they can have my stupid door i dont care they can't make me stop seeing him i dont think thats fair he didnt do anything wrong im so angry with them what am i never sllowed to have a boyfriend
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    #23

    Mar 18, 2011, 04:44 AM
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    Yup, that's the mentality of a 14 year old all right.
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    Mar 18, 2011, 03:39 PM
    OK so I get it I'm just akid and immature but please help me understand how my parents would think it's a good idea to not let me see my boyfriend I think there just trying to punish me but I just don't get it
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    Mar 18, 2011, 03:43 PM

    Your boyfriend took your virginity and innocence. That's more than enough to want to you from being together.
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    Mar 18, 2011, 04:13 PM
    OK so we slept together but they don't know that they just assume that and were not going to do it again it wasn't the best exsperience to you think if I talk to them about it and be honest they will still let me see him or do you think they will just get angry for me lying to them I don't know but I don't want to break up with him and I don't want to make my parents any angrier.
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    Mar 18, 2011, 06:20 PM

    Please learn to use punctuation. You're posts are becoming difficult to make sense of. At 14 you should at least know how to put a period in between sentences.

    Bottom line, you live under your parents roof, you live under their rules. What they say goes. If they say no boyfriend, then it's not boyfriend. Just like if they say no door, it's no door.

    You did have sex. No matter how many times you lie to them, they believe you had sex. Denying it probably won't change their minds.

    They also probably think your boyfriend is a bad influence. Maybe he is, maybe he isn't. But if you had no boyfriend, you'd most likely still be a virgin. So my bet is they're not going to budge here.

    Think about it this way. You're fourteen. This guy might be in your life anywhere from one more week to, let's be optimistic, 2 years? Chances are against you that you will be together forever, probably not even for the rest of high school. Is he worth dating? If you continue sneaking behind your parents back you'll never earn their trust back and may lose more privileges. And your parents will be in your life most likely until the days they die. So who's really more important to you? This boy that won't be around much longer? Or your parents that have raised you, fed you, clothed you, loved you, and will continue to do so for years to come?

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