[Homegirl 50]

She could be avoiding you because she knows you still have a thing for her.
She does not want to be with you. That is all you need to know. Once you get a handle on that you will be able to move on and get a life again.

[noContact706]

Its hard to believe that this girl doesn't want anything to do with me when we slept together she said she wouldn't mind having my child

Let me stop I'm a real stubborn guy if I don't feel better in the next couple of months I will probably contact her just know a definite answer and move on

[Homegirl 50]

its hard to believe that this girl doesnt want anything to do with me when we slept together she said she wouldn't mind having my child

People will say and do a lot of things when they think they are in love and lust.
When they come back down to earth, they see things more clearly. It appears she did.

You can wait around pining for a month if you want to.

[vanheart]

I thought your name was already nocontact.
Try 706 days.
Then let us know how you feel.

[bigdee]

its hard to believe that this girl doesnt want anything to do with me when we slept together she said she wouldnt mind having my child

Been there, done that. My last ex said the same thing. We were so serious that we were looking at a house to buy together. Then it all fell apart. I didn't start healing until I finally stuck with No Contact and gave up my false hope of getting back together. That was 2 years ago. Now I am happy and in another relationship. If you want to see how hard it was for me, check out my old posts from around 2008 and see how pathetic I was.

[vanheart]

Wallowing is pathetic, learning isn't.

[martinizing2]

Breakups can be one of the worst events of a persons life.

People can turn into animals or helpless whining irritants.
Occasionally it will bring strength and alter some bad lifestyles for the better.

As I said earlier, if I had to go through the divorce/breakup
Again

Or

Be dragged naked through a cactus patch
With my mouth around the exhaust pipe of a bus.

I'd take the latter.

[vanheart]

Kind of the same thing. Hehehe.

Laughing about it is key.

Most books, songs, movies, TV, whatever, is about overcoming heartache.

Were only human. Ready to correct the next mistake.

[lamp_post]

Try going no contact for real and it will work slowly. School just started and try to meet new friends. Enjoy life, is only 4 months! Don't sober and drag too long.