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    Sep 9, 2010, 02:44 PM
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    thank you very much I appriciate it x
    what stickies I'm new to this x
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    Sep 9, 2010, 04:45 PM


    The stickies are posts that are flagged to appear at the top of the forum because they are of general interest and helpful to a lot of people. If you go to the top of the page above your questions and click on the word "Relationships" it will take you to the board. You'll see the stickies at the top. I'll give a link to some of the more relevant posts:

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...nc-425290.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...qs-332732.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...up-303761.html

    There's a lot to read. Please ask if you have any questions. If you stick to this, it is going to really open your eyes to a lot of things. I know you will be happier if you do, but it will take some time.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 04:47 PM
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    Thank you so much :)
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:10 PM
    My ex decided after he broke up with me to go back to the mother of his child.
    He told me he doesn't love her but wantto try and makeit work and learn to love her. He said he's deeply in love with me though ? But the main part of the question is.. I don't want any other girl to have him but I know I can't have him because my parents won't let me. And he's posted pictures of me naked on the internet and dumped me 10 times during the 4 month relationship ?
    Should I feel jealous because he's with a girl that hedoesnt even love ?or should I feel sorry for him ?xx HELP!
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    #25

    Sep 9, 2010, 09:17 PM

    Girl, you should be out partying and celebrating that you are rid of this louse!

    He posted nude pictures of you on the internet and you actually want to be with this man?

    Hun, you need to get some self esteem and find a relationship with a man who will treat you like the princess you are!
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:20 PM
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    see that's the thing he treated me like a princess but he alsotreated me like poo ! Its just we had memories and its hard because he was nice then not and it was like a cycle x :( I don't know what todox
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:23 PM
    Is it normal for me not to want any other girl to have him.. will I feellike this forever ?
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:26 PM
    I don't want to get back with him but I don't want to let go . HELP I'm in such a mess!
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    #29

    Sep 9, 2010, 09:27 PM

    You were only dating 4 months right?

    4 months does not a relationship make. You hardly know a person in a year let alone 4 months.

    You will get over him. Find someone who is more available to you, preferably without children.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:27 PM

    You will feel like this for a little while until you realise how much better you are without him.

    How old are you both? You say your parents won't allow you to see him.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:29 PM
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    Yess.. because he will always see his ex if we wer together so its best of I guess.
    He would say stuff like you're the one for me I've never loved sumone like this before but that made him more obsessive and controlling
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:33 PM
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    16 and I'm 17
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    #33

    Sep 9, 2010, 09:35 PM
    I have a fear that if I get over his and don't get him back then he might loose feelings for me ? Is it normal for me to feel that way ?
    Also why do I feel like I only want him ?x
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    #34

    Sep 9, 2010, 09:44 PM

    Kiewiebeauty, please do not use the Comments feature to respond. Use the Answer this question feature.

    Okay, he's 16 and he already has a child? You are way too young to be dating someone with this amount of baggage. Nothing good would come from this relationship.
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    Sep 9, 2010, 09:46 PM
    OK sorry I'm new to this x
    an I know he's 17 but still yess baggage. I don't want to become a stepmom and him constantly having conversation with her
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    #36

    Sep 9, 2010, 09:50 PM
    What hurts is knowing he still loves me because he's told me but yet he's with her
    Do you think he's just tryna keep me attached and give me hope ?
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    #37

    Sep 9, 2010, 09:59 PM

    I think he's too young to know what he wants. Children shouldn't be mothers or fathers.

    No matter what happens he will ALWAYS have the baby's mother in his life. If you can't deal with that you need to find a boy who does not have that kind of drama in his life.
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    #38

    Sep 9, 2010, 10:01 PM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ns-506146.html

    In this one you're 16.. so if its an error and he's 17 and he's got a child.. what's to say you couldn't get pregnant to him also? At 17 and one child already.. its not a bandwagon I'd be happy jumping on.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...me-506279.html

    Same boy or different?
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    #39

    Sep 10, 2010, 05:43 AM
    I know he's messed up his life.and I chose not to have a baby because I want a life before I commit to being a mother :)
    You would jump on the wagon ?
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    #40

    Sep 10, 2010, 05:46 AM
    yes the same boy x
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