[talaniman]

Where do I start! I have read all the excuses you gave the others, but your problem is a simple one, and easily fixed, but it requires a commitment from you, and some work involved.

Commit to building a life that you enjoy with friends and activities, that make you happy. If you actively pursue your interests, and hobbies, eventually you will have a network of things to do, and look forward to, and your happiness will attract others to you. That's called a LIFE, and we all need one.

You will find that such actions, will greatly improve your attitude, and options, and opportunities greatly. No I don't take excuses, and you will gain experience with females and males if you get off your butt and create your own happiness yourself, and learn to share it.

Have a happy birthday. :)

[Cat1864]

Hinder, Happy Birthday! May you find peace within yourself and to be comfortable with yourself and other people.

I hope you go out today and meet at least one person who you can have a brief conversation about the weather, traffic, should the Honor Harrington books be made into a movie, how many books make up a trilogy (Douglas Adams' fans will understand), etc.

Other out of the box ideas, if there are dog shows or competitions near you go to them. Dog people love to talk about dogs and asking about their breeds is all you have to do to start a conversation.

Take a cooking class. You learn something and can make new friends at the same time.

Let today be the start of a new outlook on life. Focus on a positive today. Find something to bring a smile to your face even it is just a silly puppy video. Keep thinking about what made you smile while you are out.

Once again: Happy Birthday!

[Homegirl 50]

Good suggestions