[talaniman]

I disagree. I think a person has a right for their question to be answered for further growth. The answers were also helping those women/students in the process. I think that people should be answering the actual question rather than constantly referring back to previous irrelevant questions/topics that end up leading to no answer whatsover and then is a waste of time. I do not consider it a game, only a way for answers for different people's dilemmas. I know u think it's confusing when it relates to more than one person with more than one story, but then again, i don't think it's important to refer to the other questions. I personally think it's better to focus on the question being asked.

I don't agree, as background information is the key to understanding, and giving the best advice, and as with any advice, the more facts the better to paint the whole picture. And as with any site, people often don't like the advice given, so they start a new question, and sometimes word it different.

My main complaint with you, and your thread was that others had used your account under YOUR name so it made it seem like one person. That's not fair, and that's not how this site is run. You may disagree, that's on you, but as the moderator in this section facts, and as much background is important, and relevant, because they can be related. Your friends can post under their own identities, that would be fair, and that's the way we operate, not only to deal with trolls and others who come to play games but to understand and give the best advice. That's why people come here, so we all have to at least play by the same rules just for honesty sake. That's the whole point of having everyone here have the ability to go back and glean facts from other things the OP has posted, it paints a better picture rather than just advising in generic terms.

So if your friends have questions, let them open an account, because they have to get their own answers as do you, so just imagine the picture that was painted under your name, and the reputation it may convey. And what about others who come for answers and relate to the situations and experiences of others, but don't ask a question? Do they not at least deserve the whole truth? Don't we all? That's the whole point, being honest, and presenting the truth!

Sorry you don't agree, but that's how we try to roll here. That's why I am adding this to your post, because others can benefit I feel. Thanks though for expressing yourself.

[talaniman]

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Originally Posted by nicolii
Ps u didn't have to "merge and edit the bull crap." No one forced u. We really wanted some genuine answers. And the reason I was so offended was because I found your response to be offensive once again with no answer which is why I came on the site in the first place - for answers. Do u actually call your response "thoughtful". What's thoughtful about it. What we sent out was REAL stuff, no game, and I feel that U have wasted our time.

Read what I posted to your thread, and then read the rules as posting under another alias, or using another's account is against the rules, and is alias abuse, and punishable by being BANNED, so keep it real, and so will I. As I said if you wanted genuine answers you have to be honest and truthful. It's that simple so just follow the rules and if you don't like the way I moderate, report me to the administrator. Just PM, Curlyben and take it up with him.