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    Mar 9, 2010, 02:53 PM

    Question yourself after 4 years would you still see your ex girlfriend's best friend with same feelings that you have now, no one knows and you can never say, what made you leave your ex girlfriend was she boring or was it too much time being together, then if it is the case then the same may happen even to this girl years latter, buddy while falling in love we never realise but while you want to move on then think because you know you are going to hurt others with that decision.
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    Mar 9, 2010, 03:27 PM

    I think after 4 years your relationship had become a little stale, needing some new input to keep the spark alive,you'd become too comfortable together, perhaps even bored with each other... entrance the best friend... something different, a welcome change, reviving those special feelings you have when you first meet someone.

    You then start to question how you feel about your.. then girlfriend and realize that maybe your feelings are not what they were,this draws you closer to the best friend,where everything is still fresh and new.

    Once the initial excitement of a new relationship has worn off, because it surely will at some point,how will you feel then having ended a 4 year relationship to seek out pastures new, especially if it doesn't work out.

    You'll have lost everything.

    You need to step back for a while, have no contact with either girl ( I mean nothing,text emails, phone etc.. )Give yourself some space,do your own thing until you can see things as they really are,at this point the situation should be much clearer in your mind.
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    #23

    Mar 9, 2010, 04:41 PM
    First off, quit being a cheater.

    Sounds like this relationship has been dragged out for a while.

    It's not just about her best friend. The fact is, your relationship is in trouble and it's making your cheat on your girlfriend.

    If you can't repair the relationship, then make it a clean break. After that, clean up your attitude. You should not resort to cheating for whatever reason.
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    Mar 9, 2010, 04:48 PM

    How do you think you would feel if she did the same to you?
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    Mar 9, 2010, 08:26 PM

    Well you didn't listen to anyone 2 years ago, and now your back with the very same story. You already know what needs to be done, and should have been done before. So figure it out by rereading your merged threads, because the advice won't change, and there is no other way out.

    And your spelling and grammar haven't improved either, which figures!!
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    Mar 9, 2010, 08:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Well you didn't listen to anyone 2 years ago, and now your back with the very same story. You already know what needs to be done, and should have been done before. So figure it out by rereading your merged threads, because the advice won't change, and there is no other way out.

    And your spelling and grammar haven't improved either, which figures!!!

    I think after two years he would have learned a lesson. Well, I suppose a leopard can't change it's spot. No offence to the leopard!
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