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    jmjoseph Posts: 2,727, Reputation: 1244
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    #21

    Mar 16, 2010, 06:24 PM

    Who cares what her dreams are? She drempt about ice because she has a cold heart. Tell her that.

    She cheated while you two dated, move on.

    Enjoy your birthday, and move forward. Without her.
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    Jun 7, 2010, 09:52 PM
    This girl has some balls! Big ones! However, you need to grow some. She is definitely manipulating you. She think she is in control. The fact that this is occurring in the first place show a big problem. In my opinion, you must cut her off completely, for your own sanity. Eventually you will get a grip and by that time not care about her and see her for what she is. Understand, how little she thinks of you and how she has no respect for you. She probably thinks she 'owns' you. Don't blame yourself it's one of lifes 'big' lessons. Some people just think like that. Now you know. You can't fix her. Be very independent and too busy for her. You must NOT show any feeling toward her. Good or bad. You must be indifferent, aloof, and certainly not caring. Even if she begs. Sometime they just have to WIN. Don't let her. Deep feeling are for you are not functioning in her actions. Only winning. She's probably bragging at how you still love her and all that. Be totally selfish with her. Ask yourself or her, what YOU get out of it. Example - her: I want to come see you, where are you? You: why? (think or state) 'what do I get out of it'. Also love is probably out if the question, if she was in love, her actions wound show it. Calling etc. Beware of false promises and hope. Don't play her game. Good luck.
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    #23

    Jun 8, 2010, 11:26 AM

    Leave her alone!!
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    Sep 25, 2011, 02:15 AM
    **** her man.. im a gay guy and my guy pulled the similar ****.. jus let her go.. Let her learn a lifes lesson in not treating people like ****, and because thts all she's going to get.. u on the other hand.. have to sift through for quality.. Quality women.. u can do it bro.. Stay strong.. so chic wants you..

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