[Cat1864]

looks like you have more on your mind then just snooping.

you need to talk to your girlfriend,and you both need to be honest.

one of the great phases i have learned on this site is, no trust = no relationship.

This relationship is definitely not healthy.

This isn't as easy as just telling her what happened. I don't know how much trust she has in you being there for her. You also mention her 'moving out soon' and her son. What is actually going on in this relationship?

Communication is always a good place to start. Learning from your mistakes and moving on together is another good step. Is she really willing to work with you on the problems in the relationship?

[I wish]

Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread so that we can follow your story and give you appropriate advice.

You should start by owning up to your mistake. You violated her privacy, now it's time to face the consequences.

Secondly, if you have so many insecurities, to the point that you need to be snooping around, then you have much bigger issues than just confronting her about your snoop-fest.

Instead of sneaking around, be direct and work out your issues with her. Open communication is the way to go.