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    BbJohnn78 Posts: 15, Reputation: 3
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    Feb 8, 2010, 01:26 PM

    HI.. here's an update of how I'm doing.. Let me tell you first I'm doing great with the NC.. I haven't call her in more than 3 weeks or text, email her... I feel good doing it, I do miss her but it doesn't get to suffering... I knew by others reference that she is not doing that well.. And I believe it now because yesterday we ran in to each other and I say hi to her and she didn't answer back but she stretched her hand and looked down to the floor.. I just said hi and kept walking.. This confirmed what others told me, now I feel confident and in top of the situation, is like the tables are turned for her. Is like the NC rule manual says, when you refuse to be her friend you force her to completely loose you right at that moment and place. I just want to say thanks and to all others out there going trought a similar situation that when asked for space do it ASAP, not for her to come back but for you to work on yourself and not suffer as you do when you get clingy and she ignores you and push you away. If she ask for space give her double the space.. Get out of her sight, delete her from your myspace, Facebook, email contacts, telephone and don't pass near her house... Go be single again, look for all your friends, meet new girls, go surfing, hangout and fill your spiritual needs... But don't let her know from you... Be a Ghost.
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    Feb 8, 2010, 02:33 PM

    Good to know you're doing well.
    Yes-NC asap for you,not for them and be a ghost!
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    Feb 8, 2010, 02:47 PM

    I am glad that you are doing better.

    Good luck and keep up the hard work. :)
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    Mar 8, 2010, 02:58 PM

    Hey.. just want some input here.. I just got to know some new girls.. I kind of like one of them, but I don't want to fall under a rebound relationship because I know I'm going to hurt her and me... How do I know I'm ready for getting involved with another woman?
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    Mar 8, 2010, 09:30 PM

    I think you know when you don't have to ask that question-so give it some more time until you feel completely over your breakup.
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