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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    #21

    Mar 20, 2010, 07:59 AM

    I think you have come from the dark into the light, and it can only get better from here. Repairing your credit may take time and some help, but at least you won't live in fear of your safety, and your daughter can be in a better environment. That's a win in my book. A big win. Way to go. You will get my support anytime you need it.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 11:17 PM
    Is his pride the reason y he is blaming me look like the !itch?
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    I moved out and left a week ago but I only took what was mine and my daughters. I did not take anything that was not mine.now he is saying that I took everything and left the apartment empty and will not return stuff that he said where gifts, is he saying this because of his pride or does he really believe this? Remember it was a bad relationship and I put up with it for to long abuse mentally emotionally and he hit me about ten times in the course of 3years but I told him that and he says it was all my fault and he never was mentally or emotionally when he so was. The only reason why I still text is because he has bills under my name to pay but that is all.he has not apologized or tried to get me back.I am just really confused in all this.I just wonder what is he really thinking and feeling.I want to move on but the feeling that I was really with some one that logn that is showing no care hurts me in some way.
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    #23

    Mar 25, 2010, 12:01 AM

    What's the arrangement with these bills?
    Are they actually in your name?

    Get some legal advice on that so you can protect your financial status and stop worrying about what he is thinking.

    He is an abusing creep,what goes through his mind is probably not understandable anyway.

    ( I think this thread needs to be merged with your other one.)
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    Mar 25, 2010, 02:02 AM

    You tried to cope with it for a long time, and didn't get anything but pain and misery, I am so sorry.
    I can only imagine how hard it must be, but you need to try and walk away

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