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    dontworry Posts: 1, Reputation: 2
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    Dec 28, 2009, 09:07 PM
    I'm a guy, I'm 18 and I personally prefer short girls with average or small breasts. I'm not into the big titted blonde super model whores that the stereotypical guy likes, I honestly wouldn't even give her a second glance. That's my preference but really, I never really notice that stuff when I start to like a girl anyway. It's never really mattered to me.

    If your boyfriend likes big boobs, and he's dating you then there must have been something that he likes about you more than boob size.
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    Dec 29, 2009, 12:17 AM
    Can I offer a completely different point of view? It's ALL a matter of perception.

    When I first met my husband I was an Australian size 8 with size 10 DD breasts (36" breasts -24" waist -32" hips). Dolly Parton my husband used to call me. And, guess what? I absolutely HATED it. I hated men talking to my boobs or looking at them as I walked past. I hated having to buy bikinis that were a different size top and bottoms. I hated the feeling of them bouncing as I walked. I hated the way the bra straps pulled at my shoulders and left red marks because of the weight of my breasts.

    I have always looked at women with smaller breasts and wished they were mine. I would kill to be able to wear shoe-string straps and no bra. I love to be able to wear strapless tops. But, I have never been able to and never will.

    In the end you have to stop focusing on it. Your breasts are not what you are and obsessing won't make the slightest iota of difference. Trust me, I know! It just fills your time with useless thinking when you could be thinking of something much more useful.

    There will ALWAYS be women that are more attractive... bigger breasts, better breasts, firmer breasts, younger breasts, etc, etc you know what I mean.

    I would suggest that you enhance what you have. Wear tops that flatter your bust and wear bras that enhance it. There are some fabulous and gorgeous push up bras around. I can't emphasize enough the importance of a GOOD bra. (Good bras saved my life - I however wore minimiser bras for quite a while.)

    Wear clothes that make your breasts look great and make them look sexy. Emphasize your femininity - at your age you can wear almost anything - take the time to make yourself look gorgeous.

    As I said, it's all a matter of perception - start to perceive yourself as desirable and sexy and enhance your assets, and other people will share your perception!
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    Dec 30, 2009, 05:07 AM

    My fiancé is a b-cup and I love her breasts. Get a man who appreciates you for you.

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