[surferforlife]

alriteee this is the girl from my last questions we got back together and noww well its really badd :l she acted like she wanted me more when we weren't together and know that we are she just acts like she doesn't care at all and this is hurting me so much but its nothing compared to how I have hurt her =[ but I love her so much and she still doesn't believe me a few days ago it was our 1 year and 4months and she didn't even say anythng back to me I wrote her a song and she didn't even say anything made me feel so bad after all my hard work she didn't even say a thank you or anything her best friend liked it more than she even did -_- and now we haven't even talked normaly for 3 days and her best friend was like prove to her you love her and I have tried so many things I really have but she doesn't trust me anymore.. annd idkk.. what I should do noww do I leave her or stay with her ? But I love her so muucchhh its killng me already.

[RadioActive697]

Well I know how you feel. But to tell you the truth I think you need to leave her. She's not showing you that she loves and appreciate you. And in an relationship you need those things. You will find a better girl. To sum it up it would be better to not stay in an relationship when getting hurt. You could talk to her but I would leave instead of getting my heart broken when I knew I was getting treated wrong. So you decide. Its not our choice its yours.

[surferforlife]

Thank you so much that helped a lot

[RadioActive697]

Your Welcome!

[surferforlife]

Me and my girlfriend from the otherrr questionss solved thingss and then she told me she thinkss that she isn't the right girl for me because she thinks she hurts me too much and she thinks that her bfffff makes me happier and we get allong much better I don't know how to convince her she just denys it

[justcurious55]

I'm not sure how much clearer anyone can make this. This relationship needs to end. This is a bad relationship. You two should not be together. You need to stop talking to her. You need to stop talking to her friend. No, you have obviously not solved anything. Otherwise you wouldn't be here writing questions we can hardly make sense of. It doesn't matter why she thinks you two shouldn't be together. She's right, you shouldn't.

[surferforlife]

Well after everyone's advice I am deciding to break up with my girlfriend.The thing is I'm not sure how to cause I love her so much and I don't really want to break it off but I think I have to already . I just don't want to be the one to hurt her again. I don't know how to break up with her and after we do should I stay friends with her?

[talaniman]

I think the straight honest approach is the way to go, and then leaving each other alone to process your feelings helps a lot. Being friends may not happen at first, and could just hurt the healing process. Why take a chance and force something, when you can both heal, and do other things you enjoy, so you can appreciate the friendship later.

[surferforlife]

This is the same girl I used to have problems with when we were together and now we've been broken up for 5 months now and I just can't get her out of my mind. I tried getting a new girlfriend I ended up thinking about my ex-girlfriend the whole time. I just don't know what to do anymore. After those 5 months we had only 2 normal conversations. She's really happy with another man and I'm very happy she's happy but I want to be happy to and I just can't be without her. What am I supposed to do ?

[talaniman]

Your supposed to be doing your own thing, not trying to be friends, and enjoying yourself. You don't replace her, but you rebuild a life that you enjoy without her being a part of it and maybe you need to get busier doing your thing, or need longer than 5 months to get over it. Whichever it is, do the No Contact whatsoever thing, no matter what!

[surferforlife]

Its so hard too though :l but your right thankk you so much

[talaniman]

Life is hard my friend! It is what it is, so don't let it beat you.