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    Aug 14, 2010, 12:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by EyelinerJunkiex View Post
    lmao! She's mental! I'm having the same problem. Except my bestie is copying everything about me too! I mean, even my dammit texted style;/ and worked hard to acheive that >.<
    You should check the dates on posts.
    No one has posted here for over 2 years.
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    Aug 30, 2010, 03:19 AM
    Hey this sounds so familiar me and my friend met over a year ago and to start with it was the odd bit of clothing then it got to the same house furniture (and my furniture is unusal), hair, clothes, words I'd say even trying to write like me, I felt sorry for her because she didn't have the same close family I did, I was trying to lose a little weight she had to start and lose the most quicker, then I mentioned I wanted to get married the next day she was engaged, omg the frustration. In the end I'd had enough it was hard because she was a great friend but I wimped out and sent a text saying I liked to be different could she stop copying everything I do. It worked for a little while then got back to normal, by now I blew my top told her she wanted me to be straight with her and she doesn't listen when I am, this brings us to now - she said how sorry she was and I meant more to her then any object and we're back good friends but time will tell if it'll kept this way, if it does great if not its bye bye friendship over because I can't stand people who can't be themselves it akes me angry towards her and that's not a good friendship.
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    Aug 30, 2010, 03:36 AM

    Hey this sounds so familiar I met my friend over a year ago and it was the odd silly thing like I'd say I liked that top next day she'd have it on, it annoyed me but I could brush it off, it then got to I was trying to lose a little weight and she wanted to come along- she starved herself to beat everyone to there goal, next I mentioned I wouldn't mind getting married next day she's engaged and the wedding of the year is in organisation, she told me she thought my boyfriend was the nicest person she'd met and how good looking he was (honest which is good). Slowly her once argos flat packed house starts to be over taken by the unusal furniture like in my house. As we work together there is not much getting away from her people was even commenting how we looked alike as her hair and voice had changed, even her writing, she told me she'd go over my writing to try write like me, I'd had enough it was hard because she is a great friend so I took the easy route and text saying I really like to be different and could she please not copy off me, she said she would this lasted the whole of a few days then it was back to normal I blew my top I'd had enough so I told her straight she said how sorry she was and that no object or thing was worth what I was to her, so this brings us until now back 2 good friends how long will it last? Time will tell. If she does keep it up great if not its bye bye friendship. I prob sound such a ***** but I cnt stand it I like to be different and unique.

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