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    Aug 18, 2009, 10:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by justrena911 View Post
    well it wasnt as bad as I thought it would be, he is angry but revealed to me a few things I didnt know. We have decided to take some time apart. He didnt yell or curse he simply said I wasnt the same woman he fell in love with because she would never do that to him. I agree, Im not the same woman. He proceeded to tell me he know something was going on seeing as we had not slept together since Sept. but he didnt want to believe that she was not his. I told him about the other guy and that I only recently contacted him, he would like to meet him and thinks that we all three need to sit down and figure this out. I dont know whats going to happen, he was not here when i got up this morning and a few of his clothes are gone. I guess we need to take it one day at a time from here on out. Thank you all agian for your advice
    Kudos on trying to fix a messy situation.
    It takes real character right now to step up and face the music.
    I am very proud that you made this step.
    Now all you can do is give him the time he needs, this was a difficult situation for him to have to face, although he probably suspected something, it's another to face a reality, then to suspect one.
    Good luck to you and please keep us posted.

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