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    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
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    #21

    Jun 29, 2009, 09:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Rule View Post
    You brought it on yourself. He screws around on his wife: while you justify it in your brain. You accepted him going home after you slept with him? Actually; his wife is better off without him, and l feel you both would have been well suited for one another....


    Did you actually read the thread before you answered? It's a recommended practice.
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    Jun 29, 2009, 10:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Did you actually read the thread before you answered? It's a recommended practice.
    I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess... no?
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    Aug 31, 2013, 10:58 AM
    Bit of a generalisation - you don't know anything about the circumstances, and it isn't 1955 anymore - people have affairs unfortunately, because marriage isn't as 'sacred' as it used to be, and society is increasingly individualistic. This is reality - so when you say 'you have no right to be upset after 2 years of a 'relationship' (albeit an affair)', it's not very pragmatic. Get off your moral high horse.

    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Did you actually read the thread before you answered? It's a recommended practice.
    Tell me about it - people are so touchy about infidelity. Let's think outside the box and try to consider each situation in it's own right. It's never black and white.

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