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    #21

    Oct 24, 2006, 10:28 PM
    Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
    If you respected your wife, you would not control her. This remark is totally chauvenistic.
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    #22

    Oct 25, 2006, 12:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by s_cianci
    Well, the ground rules do change somewhat after marriage. Dating is one thing but, once married, the stakes are much higher and a partner has the right to expect more from their spouse.
    The best way to go about things is to never expect anything of no one!
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    #23

    Oct 25, 2006, 12:26 AM
    Although when you are married I agree that you become one BUT truly everybody needs their space. In the sense that you still need to have your own independence in some respect.

    If my husband told me that I can't go out my girlfriend for 1 night, he would upset the hell out of me, and vice-versa, so you can't expect anything of no one, we are all individuals at the end of the day.

    What needs to be considered is the frequency this is held at. If its on a regular weekend basis where a wife or a husband has to go get drunk with his or her buddies then YES I agree, huge red flag, but if it's a one off occasion what the hell is wrong with that? :confused:
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    #24

    Oct 25, 2006, 10:43 AM
    You're already worried, or you wouldn't have posted the question. But you provided only enough information to elicit several uninformed answers, plus a few good questions.
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    #25

    Oct 25, 2006, 10:46 AM
    Interesting. Your favorite color isn't blue, is it?
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    #26

    Oct 28, 2006, 09:07 AM
    How Old Are You Both... any Children In The Picture?
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    #27

    Oct 28, 2006, 09:19 AM
    With all due respect, I don't think its possible to answer this question very well without more information. It is either a sincere question asked poorly or a gag post. Time will tell.
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    #28

    Oct 28, 2006, 09:23 AM
    I agree as this was posted one month ago and the OP has yet to come back.

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