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    #21

    Apr 29, 2009, 06:14 AM

    There are a few points that need to be mentioned.

    1) Your boyfriend may not want you to go to jail. In most states he is under the age of consent and therefore ANY sexual activity between the two of you could result in a statutory rape charge.

    2) I've said this many times, NO ONE should engage in sexual intercourse until they are emotionally, financially and physical ready to have a child. I suspect the main issue for your boyfriend is that he does not want to be a 16 yr old father.

    3) At your ages having a boyfriend younger than you is unusual. And your boyfriend may have some apprehensions about that.

    4) There are other ways to satisfy your horniness. Cold showers is just one of the things that come to mind. ;)
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    #22

    Apr 30, 2009, 08:50 AM

    You better appreciate what you have and be glad he is waiting. The last thing you both need is the life changing event of you getting pregnant.

    Your guy is thinking with his brains, and not his hormones. Follow his lead, and stop worrying about what your girlfriends are doing.
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    #23

    May 1, 2009, 12:12 PM

    Thank you all for your life. But the thing is. I'm not sure if I'm even ready to have SEX yet. I just wanted to have dry sex. And we've bene having it and its been finee. Now all of a sudden.. no hand jobs, no dry sex (dry humping). Only him feeling up my shirt and making out with me. Why doesn't he want to have dry sex? There's nothing wrong with that, we've been fine before.
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    #24

    May 1, 2009, 12:12 PM
    *help not life lol
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    #25

    May 1, 2009, 12:25 PM

    Maybe because you are taking a huge risk with 'dry' sex that you will cross the line.

    It isn't pleasant to get all worked up to work yourself back down.

    If you aren't ready, don't pressure him or yourself, enjoy making out, which is what he is comfortable with. Making out is great fun in it's own right.
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    #26

    May 1, 2009, 12:31 PM

    You ever think it may be a bit uncomfortable for a guy to be in public with love juice running down his leg? Especially when your still humping away?
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    #27

    May 4, 2009, 01:06 PM

    Yeah your right
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    Feb 3, 2011, 11:26 AM
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    Hahaha true

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