[Jamie Claxton]

I look at girls/women as human beings that have feelings and emotions. I don't and have never ever see them as sexual objects

[Synnen]

Yeah... but I see men as sexual objects. They're great for reaching things in high places, sex, and fixing my car.

And taking out the garbage.

Seriously--you can only make choices about YOUR sex life. You cannot dictate anyone ELSE'S sex life.

[Fr_Chuck]

Sexual desires and the drive of hormones for the other sex is a natural thing, it is not a bad thing unless we use it to feel about it in a wrong way.

[Unknown008]

You see Jamie? You no one can change the world by himself. Unless there is a global want to "ban" the 'bad' sexual activities, this will remain as it is. It is good though that you think about others, and I'll encourage you to stay like so.

I really liked the comment from Synnen:

Seriously--you can only make choices about YOUR sex life. You cannot dictate anyone ELSE'S sex life.

[liz28]

Jamie I think your confusing sex and making love.

To me sex is nothing special, it is something to just get your rocks off.

Now making love is putting body and soul into it. You feel it from the tip of your toes, to the top of your hair. It is like a rush you cannot calm down. The very touch seems to drive you insane. It feels like your bodies are connection on a spiritual level.

Now prositutes are there to serve one purpose only, sex. So don't knock their hustle because some of them make a lot of money doing what they do.

[JudyKayTee]

Hello again, j:

Passion and love are fine for a 22 year old. But, all I wanna do is get off.

excon

Well, that and prostitution is good for the economy. Otherwise they'd be shoplifting to pay their expenses.

[JudyKayTee]

I look at girls/women as human beings that have feelings and emotions. I don't and have never ever see them as sexual objects

If that works for you, fine. I just don't know why you are here, preaching. There are times in my personal relationships that being treated as a sexual object has been just fine with me! Other times, not so much!

It depends on the ages, the situation, why you are in that situation.

And as far as prostitutes - everyone makes life choices. I may not agree but I don't dictate how other people should live. I can't control how ANYONE else thinks, feels, acts. You can't either.

Did you post how old you are? If so, I missed it.

EDIT: I just looked. You're 22. What is your sexual experience (as long as we are all being frank and honest about it)?

[mugger]

No offense, but a lot of guys will say this to get in a woman's pants.
I personally don't support hookers, but I'm not going to make a life choice for them. Many people hate the fact that I tattoo and pierce, but I'm never going to stop it.
Making love is a very special event that can only happen with someone you love.
Lust, on the other hand, is a good rush and feels great. I wouldn't trade either.
The two of these things are very different and I consider both very healthy, if you are safe.

[88sunflower]

Perfectly put mugger!! I agree 110%.

[joshdom]

Fact is, most young guys think this way. I'm 19 and all of my frinds are siingle and have one night stands. I have only ever made love to one woman. If you throw it around, what is special about that part of a relationship? I would find it hard to be with someone who treats sex casually. What makes it special that she is doing it with me? Nothing.

[N0help4u]

Exactly Josh
Anybody can get a 'slut' a dime a dozen it takes a real man to be a man for his woman.

Unfortunately nowadays most girls are worse than guys. You don't even need to pay the prostitute anymore.

[shazamataz]

Exactly Josh
anybody can get a 'slut' a dime a dozen it takes a real man to be a man for his woman.

Unfortunately nowadays most girls are worse than guys. You don't even need to pay the prostitute anymore.

Just hang around bars just before closing time for a "freebie"
I've been out partying till the wee hours of the morning with no hassle from guys... hit about 4am and all the really drunk ones start hitting on you :rolleyes:

[JudyKayTee]

Just hang around bars just before closing time for a "freebie"
I've been out partying till the wee hours of the morning with no hassle from guys... hit about 4am and all the really drunk ones start hitting on you :rolleyes:

There are no ugly men (or women) at closing time. Or so I'm told.

Know what I find offensive? When friends of my late husband make the approach to me because they "know what I need." Keep in mind - these are FRIENDS of my husband.

What I need, actually, is someone to take out the garbage and fix the garage door.

[shazamataz]

Lol yep Judy.. finding someone who will take the garbage out without being asked is a rarity though!

[IWHO]

Hello Jamie:

You leave the prostitutes alone. How is an old man like me going to get laid if you get rid of 'em. Hookers DO a marvelous job for society.

excon

You are soooo bad Excon... lol...

[N0help4u]

What I need, actually, is someone to take out the garbage and fix the garage door.

Let me know when you find him!:D

[JudyKayTee]

Let me know when you find him!:D

Will do! (Haven't seen you around; are we travelling in different circles these days?)

[N0help4u]

Will do! (Haven't seen you around; are we travelling in different circles these days?)

I think I am here for now (the summer at least)

[0rphan]

Hi Jamie,

Unfortunately sex in today's society has changed over the years.

At one time it wasn't openly discussed as it is now, but something kept private behind closed doors.

You are very young and you are absolutely correct in what you think about sex, sadly life doesn't always pan out the way we want,this is where some people use sex as a way to provide an income for their family.

Without knowing their personal circumstances it is not fair to judge... it could mean the difference of putting food in their babies mouths or simply going hungry.

There is the argument that some men need to visit these girls because they are disabled or have some kind of disfigurement, who would not normally have any chance of getting or having a normal sexual relationship, therefore in my opinion need the service( for want of a better phrase) that these girls provide,all be it for a charge... but it's their job and that is how they treat it.

However I do think there should be mandatory health checks on these girls, not only to protect them ,but also their clients.

The practice of prostitution has existed for many years and will continue to do so.

Jamie,I hope you can keep the thoughts and opinions you hold, until you meet the girl of your dreams.