[Alty]

Well if that don't just scream sexy then I don't know what does ;)

Wow, way to kill the mood Mark! ;)

[MarkwithaK]

I'll keep my comments to myself Alty... but they're there. Oh boy are they there! ;)

[Alty]

I'll keep my comments to myself Alty....but they're there. Oh boy are they there! ;)

Come on, spit it out, be a girl! ;)

[lighterrr]

I think I'd like to try anal with my boyfriend for several reasons:
1) I like being touched back there
2) I've got a dildo vibe that I discovered a while back is nice in there if I lube it a bit
3) I know he'd be gentle and back off carefully if need be. When I first started with him he was probably more careful about that than I was, and as a result i actually was able to enjoy even my first time.

He hasn't asked yet, but I know how much he likes touching my a$$ and spreading me during sex, and there was this one time he pressed on there during sex. Didn't enter, just lingered there while he was still hard after doing me doggie style. I didn't really give him a sign to go on, though, and he was pass-out tired, seeing as this was round 3 back-to-back after he'd worked all day. I didn't want to do anything that'd take to long to do properly.

I've read the syndicated columns and a lot of the threads on here, and I know the advice about fingers and lube and whatnot works on me when I'm by myself with s toy, but is this applicable to the real thing, or am I going to have to "re-train" myself to get used to my man in there?

Toys would be fine I heard the beads are great, I remember my first time doing anal, my guy was gentle we don't do it often but my a$$ is pretty trained now :D

[45notdaddy]

I'd suggest a kit such as this one: Julie Ashton Anal Beginner's Kit by Doc Johnson

I'd suggest shopping around a bit as the prices / shipping do tend to vary a bit.

Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate, and by all means use condoms on the toys as it makes cleanup so much easier. (We use some cheapo Lifestyles for this).