[Synnen]

She states, in the original question, that she isn't thinking about anything except how good it feels.

That says, to me, that she's not hurting or sad or upset or scared---if she's thinking about how GOOD it feels.

[Mymama]

Ok, chrissymarie what is your question?? Come right out and ask me yourself!! Sex does not hurt me.. after i have my orgasm, i just start to cry. No reason behind it. I am not thinking of again thing other than how good things feel. My question is: is crying normal after sex? Now do you get the question! If not let me know and i might find a different way to explain it! I don't know if i can, everyone else seems to understand it.

[chrissymarie]

Ok, chrissymarie what is your question?????? come right out and ask me yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!! SEX DOES NOT HURT ME.. AFTER I HAVE MY ORGASM, I JUST START TO CRY. NO REASON BEHIND IT. I AM NOT THINKING OF AGAIN THING OTHER THAN HOW GOOD THINGS FEEL. MY QUESTION IS: IS CRYING NORMAL AFTER SEX? NOW DO YOU GET THE QUESTION! IF NOT LET ME KNOW AND I MIGHT FIND A DIFFERENT WAY TO EXPLAIN IT! I DON'T KNOW IF I CAN, EVERYONE ELSE SEEMS TO UNDERSTAND IT.

MyMama you already answered my question in a previous post. Rest of my responses were not addressed to you. I won't answer anymore of your threads. Sorry for making you upset.

[shyfoxie]

He probably doesn't want to feel like he might be hurting you, so that might explain why he doesn't want to have sex.
If you feel like this is leftover from the abuse, then get help. If you just feel all emotionally overwhelmed, try getting him to understand that the feeling is so strong you can't help it even though you enjoy it. I got emotional after I was wish my boyfriend fairly often at first (actually, it was partly related to some guilt from a guy I'd seen before), but I talked it over with him and it really helped.