[Skell]

I agree with K_3. There is no giving her time to make a decision whether you wait for her or not. That statement of telling her take her time is pretty much saying you will wait for her, and she will just continue to play all involved.
You need to stand up to her. Don't give her options and let her make decisions. You make the decisions for her. And you do this by YOUR actions.

[lost??]

Sorry skell I don't think I made clear what I was trying to say. I mean if it came up again she can take all the time she wants to make her decision but I'm moving on. There no point being in a relationship if she doesn't know who she wants to be with. I didn't mean that id wait for her... I don't deserve that and its not fair to me. So I would break it off, if she came back great if not oh well... at least I know what I want haha

[Skell]

OK.. sorry about that.

Good to hear. Just didn't want her to dictate to you.. you be in control.
But just be wary of letting her come and go too. You know what I mean? You don't want her to think that she can just come and go as she pleases and you will be there for her.
That's what I meant really. Even though you would say you are moving on, you have to completely shut the door on her. Don't leave it slightly ajar or she will just keep coming in and out for your life and the cycle will never stop!
I just got that impression from your statement "if she comes back great!"

If she leaves or you get rid of her again I wouldn't bother at all with even thinking about taking her back.