[aaastiff]

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Hey I've just came out off a 6 year relationship with my girlfriend and our daughter of 2 years and I'm so hurt can't believe blown everything

It all started last year in oct when told her didn't love her and she moved out she ended up sleeping with another guy which killed me even though we were separated at time anyway I managed to persuade her back and was going OK until lat Friday when she went out with friends I found out the person she had slept with was out with them as well so we had a big argument over it turns out she's been texting him ever since

She says she wants say friends with him weather I like it or not so I told her well choose me or him so she just told me its over and from now on she just wants to be on her own

I have asked her if she has feelings for this guy she says no just friends but I won't be on my own because I'm fed up off all the e happened between as now I don't know what to do never seen her like this before and truly believe I've now blown it I'm such a mess

[talaniman]

That shouldn't stop you from being a great dad, and leaving her, and her personal life alone.

For whatever reason you're lousy together as a couple, but that doesn't mean you can't work together to be great PARENTS.

[aaastiff]

I know so why do I love her so much and am hurting so bad wanting to be with her

[Romefalls19]

After reading the whole story, you guys do NOT go well together at all. First you look elsewhere, then she does. That is a huge red flag that the relationship isn't working.

Stop playing tennis with this relationship, be a great dad to your child and leave her to her own life.